Once one bad thing happens to you it makes it more likely that another bad thing will happen? I’ve been sexually assaulted 4 times over the course of my 27 years in my life. It seems like since the first time it made me more “susceptible” to it happening again. I don’t understand. I hate to have a victim mentality but I sometimes ask “why me?” I hate that I feel vulnerable when I’m out alone, like I’m waiting to be attacked again because hey, it’s happened 4 times already why not again? I hate people.
1 Like
Sorry I relate my first time was by an uncle I was 6.
2 Likes
Pepper spray???
3 Likes
I’m so sorry that happened to you!!!
1 Like
I do carry pepper spray with me. But the other times were by people I knew so doesn’t really apply to the other situations.
1 Like
I’ve had bad luck on my life. Especially with men that use me. I was the breadwinner for the family when I was married to my ex-husband.
1 Like
Teeth. I say take a bite out of that hotdog.
2 Likes
I feel like that’s a little insensitive @shutterbug but maybe I’m just a sensitive person
1 Like
I sometimes feel like a victim from being sexually abused when i was 8 cuz it made me never want sexual contact with anyone ever again, so at 50 years old I’m still a virgin. That makes me feel weird and abnormal.
3 Likes
That’s sad. I was sexually abused at six years old and 8 1/2.
1 Like
This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.