Compensation, Decompensation & Over-Compensation

See first: “de·com·pen·sa·tion [dēˌkämpənˈsāSH(ə)n/] – the failure to generate effective psychological coping mechanisms in response to stress, resulting in personality disturbance or disintegration, especially that which causes relapse in schizophrenia.” … " the term refers to the inability to maintain defense mechanisms in response to stress, resulting in personality disturbance or psychological imbalance."

Compensation would seem to be the opposite, but there is (observably) also *over-*compensation, which can look like “contrarian narcissism.”

Seeing all three at different times in my own behavior in response to stress, I am able to see it in others as well. Some just collapse into Seligman’s “learned helplessness” (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness) and “give up.” Some become negativistically (or “nihilistically”) hyper-assertive and insist that others agree with them about “how awful everything is.” (Does it seem empowering to them somehow? It did to me when I was more nihilistic.) Some seem to neither de-compensate nor over-compensate and just “get real.”

When I get stressed everything is spiritual.

every word communicated, every body gesture, any advice all is coming from a spiritual lesson the person has gone through or is trying to get me through.

The good news is that coffee solves all problems, including that one.

:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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A nice big cup of shut the ■■■■ up. I like that notion.

I overcompensate on purpose like looky I’m amazing, I will not fall, I will not fade, I will take your breath away.

And I actually do amaze people. Lol I like science and learning and working out and ■■■■. I’m a militant type A who just happened to get a brain disease. Sucks.

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I prefer to think that a disease got my brain and has been wandering around ever since muttering, “why didn’t someone WARN me about THAT GUY?!?”

[ strut ]

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But you know it which gives you a major leg up. We can work with what we can see, accept and own. And it’s pretty clear from your posts that you’ve got that down.

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