Goals and feeling comfortable is a must. We must drop bad relationships to feel comfortable again. Why do we latch onto negativity. If u know ur dealing with a person that will bring you down but are in some way maintaining a connection that is detrimental to yourself. Maybe the excuse is because u don’t have any other girlfriend. I think when you clear out negative people you allow yourself to focus and achieve your top priority goal. Less stress. Better sleep at night. I’m not saying it’s good to isolate just be your own master when dealing with your relationships. Having just one thing to focus on is better than having multiple drama. Effecting your time your health and the person u wish to become. If you are single it’s not hard nowadays to find a date. But have dignity don’t let a woman’s drinking problem affect u dump her be you. Especially be wary if there are any baby daddy involved with a woman of interest. It’s not even worth it then. You will get ur feelings hurt if you try to persist. And these baby daddy types are full blown crazy. Even though they hate each other it’s the kids that still attach the two even tho the two might not like one another anymore. You’ll know ur girl when u see her. Everything will be right like god put it together. But be careful if u wish to pursue her because that opens yet another relationship you might not be healthy for.
I asked this woman at the gym to go out for a walk or a jog. But she stated that was sweet of me but she said she was dating another guy at the gym. She said she adored him, I cracked a joke and told her that she’d adore me more. Anyway she told the guy and he had his friend confront me. I told them I didn’t know she was attached. It’s not like she had her boyfriends name written on her head. But they tried to bully me i stood my ground and eventually it settled but I will never go to gym same time they do. I had to change my schedule.