Would you like a girlfriend / boyfriend...?

I had my share of woman. I had no luck with woman. I got hurt each time. I guess I wanted the wrong ones each time. Those beautifull and sexy ones with no morals. Yes thats my type but they proved not to be long term relationship material. But I had some really good times with them. Interesting and exciting times. It’s just the break ups that was devastating each time. I have’nt had a girlfriend in the past 10 years. I’m content to be alone nowadays.

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I would like to have one if I’m ever able to, though I’ve been infatuated with one of my friends for almost a year now. But I’ve noticed that she doesn’t really seem to be prepared for a romantic relationship, which is fine with me. Still, I wonder if we could ever have one together and make it work. :confused:

If I got one I felt like I could communicate with satisfactorily I would. My last girlfriend I felt like we just didn’t have enough communication to make the relationship sustaining. It was frustrating. Also, I don’t feel like I can expect a woman to put up with my foibles.

I’ve never been a serious relationship and I’m at a point in my life where I’d like to build a life with someone. I’m debating whether dating someone with Schizophrenia would be beneficial or would work against me.

Honestly right now, only if she has a severe, severe mental illness (Period)

Sometimes I want a boyfriend but they can be so jealous it’s scary

id rather a girlfriend with sza,the same as me… we’d be understanding and we would have lots in common…heal together :slight_smile:

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haha… man I made that mistake just recently… honestly I need to take time off just to get over the frustration so I’m not just some hurt ■■■■■■■ going into the next relational pursuit. I mean that been hurt/disappointed by women pain-body is easy to speak generally from and that can kind of become condescending to women in general… and that always makes me feel like ■■■■ and undeserving of love.

Nonsense though… There are good people out there. There are good women… even sexy and beautiful ones who aren’t satisfied with the sleep around life… I’m still trying to figure out how to detect that vibe… Cause perhaps we all have the tendency to sell ourselves as who we kind of wish to be but also how we wish to be seen… but I’ll tell you the last couple girls I’ve really gotten to know under that intent of interest… dammmmmmn… they most definitely weren’t who they were trying to be.

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Yes, I would like a girlfriend really bad. As of now I have absolutely 0 prospects.

But like @Azley said there are a lot of cool, down-to-earth ladies out there. Especially beautiful and intelligent ones, I suppose it’s just a matter of putting yourself in the right place at the right time.

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yeah… let me know when you find where that is :slight_smile:

my first guess is “not here” and “somewhere in the future”

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Hahaha! Yeah, I’ll keep ya posted.

I have learned that geting out of my comfort zone places me at higher odds of meeting a woman.

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Yes I’d love a good boyfriend. However. College boys don’t really have the level of maturity I’d like and I don’t particularly have an interest in dating older men. In addition I have serious issues regarding sexual things due to the hallucinations/psychosis in general of sexual abuse I used to experience, still have nightmares about, still experience with less frequency and severity, etc so the relationship at this point in time could not have a sexual aspect which adds another level of challenge. I am in fact so phobic of and repulsed by the thought of having to be physically intimate with others that I avoid guys entirely, just in case we end up liking each other and I don’t have the willpower to say no to a relationship and then he tries sexual things and so on.

So I guess I’d say I’d like a relationship, but I’m not emotionally or mentally prepared for one.

I’m sorry to hear all that anna… you’re inherently trust-able and an outstanding gal… I bet you’ll find a good guy who is willing to be patient.(and it seems you’re on your way to being a scientist :thumbsup:)

Well it kind of sets you up to be trustworthy… some people are looking for that more than anything.

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only if she has sz too

i wish i would stop getting so much pressure to do things

Some conditions girls have are really a turn-on…but don’t listen to me, I’m literally crazy

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