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Woman in pharmacy

There used to be pharmacy next to my building.
A young woman about 30 yrs worked there.
We werent close like liking, but she always liked my jokes.
She is now in in another near by pharmacy.
I check there from time to time, and ask her how she is.
I used to bring her chocolate, or things like that, but she is very shy and modest.
I knew from her story that she had a boyfriend she lived with, and never put my self in position to ask her to escort her to bus station.
I often think of her like someone I would like to settle with.
I rang her pharmacy today, and she answered and asked me by my name what I need.
I asked her as joke beetween us whether she got married.
She laughed, and said no.
Any way, Im thinking visiting her this week in afternoon,to see her.
I have no intentions, just to get closer with her.
As I live near, think it would be nice to escort her some time home…
Womans opinion would be nice. Are my intensions good or no.
I’m prepared to be single, but she and I could be at least friends.

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I’m married and I don’t like guys flirting with me.

Yes you can be friends @zoa

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But if she has a boyfriend or married I would be very careful approaching her

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Thats your personal impression. Im not flirting, if she is with someone ill just walk away. Dont be so rigid…

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She laughed and said no.
I know her more then four years.

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I think that you have a friend in her @zoa

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I would be creeped out if a client of the pharmacy brought me chocolates, especially if they knew I was taken. A lot of times, women act nice because they can be fearful of the consequences of not acting nice. Not that you would harm her, but think about this: There are men who treat women badly. We don’t know which ones they are – you don’t come with signs on you. SO we have to be cautious about every single one.

If she is involved with someone, the right thing to do is back off and just be friendly at the pharmacy, in a polite, social, non-personal way.

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You asked for a woman’s opinion. Men have no idea what it’s like to be on the receiving end of attention.

They think they are just being “nice” and that the women should find nothing wring with that.

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Thanks @BadPandy, I never met nice woman like that, but she was always kind.
I ll probably just wont go.
Staying single isnt that bad.
You are right, thanks…

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All I’m saying is be cautious.

You don’t have to be single, you just have to be aware of how women receive attention.

A woman will definitely give you a sign if/when she’s interested. She will definitely get a little different, a little more than just polite.

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You are right, I personally wanted your opinion…
Thanks for input

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Of course!

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