Why is the problem always me?

As I have been bringing up the bros drinking with my mum , she turns round and says it’s the new meds I’m taking. Ok maybe I got a bit more irritable on it. But why is it that I’m always the problem.

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I feel sorry for you. It’s not easy dealing with a brother who is spiralling out of control.

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I feel the same way sometimes…just keep yourself emotionally healthy !!!

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I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me I sometimes feel I’m my own worst enemy… I mean why do I even allow his drinking to effect me.

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Oh sorry.

It’s just cos I can relate to a degree. I have a family member who is unwell and I’m so concerned. :face_exhaling:Sometimes it’s a bit draining but by no means their fault. I love this person.

Idk why you allow it to affect you.

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I don’t love my brother. At all. It concerns me what he puts my mum through. She has enough on her plate. I’m sorry I know it’s not easy :disappointed:

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Okay yes everyone has their reasons why they feel the way they do about others. Np.

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I can understand why it feels draining. And you feel paralyzed cos you can’t do anything about it.

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Yea. For me it’s just so sad to witness aswell. :sob:

I do wat I can and so do you. That’s good.

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