I cant help but think people dont want to be seen with me. Its not like I have bad hygiene so it must be the weight. My partner says that’s not true. But its hard to believe when you hear others voices telling me I’m fat and disgusting. The only time I get out of the house is to go to appointments and the first of the month when I get paid they have no choice because only I have access to my bank account.
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I doubt people don’t want to be seen with you. I think your mind is messing with you on that one. You are really struggling right now and I don’t think you are properly medicated so it makes sense you would think something like that. Don’t listen to the voices. They are liars. Hang in there. Things will get better.
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I dont believe people don’t want to be seen with you. it’s voices’ nonsense.
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This time I understand there’s no room in the car but last time they said my weight and the cold could damage the car.
they? the voices?
No my inlaws. That is what they said last time my partner got paid and I wasn’t allowed to be with them.
your inlaws are rude.
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It’s because you live in an abusive household. Please look for help to get out. You will feel much better.
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There’s nothing wrong w big ppl. I personally think big men are hot. So don’t worry about your weight. Except if you want to be healthy.
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Anti-fat bias is very common and mostly unintentional/automatic.
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You need to move out of there ASAP. I understand leaving an abusive lovingliving situation is difficult and there are always a million reasons to wait one more month. I’ve been there. But you need to get out now.
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Oh honey I feel so bad for you. I wish you could be surrounded by people who love and support you. You deserve to be loved and respected. This constant criticism is just awful. I hope you find the resources and strength to move some place where you can have a sanctuary away from these awful people.
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@cbbrown, get out while you can.
Don’t wait for tomorrow.
Do it Now!
@cbbrown. Have you heard of the Aspire app? Robin McGraw created it for victims of Domestic violence.
I understand the importance of getting out of your abusive situation but it might be easier said than done while you are having such a hard time with your symptoms. If you can’t move out now, maybe that could be something you can do when you are a little bit more stable. Either way, I wish you the best. Please continue taking your meds. We are all hoping for the best for you.
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