Messaging this really nice woman, and it’s like I am making a doofus of myself. I dont know what to say half the time, and I self sabotage any potential mate by being weird.
I hate this. It’s no wonder people ghost me. 
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Maybe you are forcing the conversation. I’m sure she will let you know if she wants to chat.
I got ghosted too. I dunno why exactly but possibly cos I was too clingy and annoying idk though. Or cos I was embarrassing. Or awkward. Or just not their type. Or all of the above. 
So I can’t really give advice.
But I wish u perseverance with it!
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Or all of the above and more things.
Tbh I think ghosting is rude though
I have the same problem. If you figure out a solution let me know.
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I’m looking hard for a solution! I’ll keep you updated!
Fortunately it looks like I got lucky this time, because she wants to meet me for some reason.
She says shes awkward too. 
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That’s good news. It means there might be a way out.
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Some women are just very tolerant and patient and if they like something about you they might just give you a chance whether you are shy or awkward or both.
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You’re right. Shes seemingly accepting of my quirks. She knows about my sza, my fear of driving on the highways, that I’m on a leave of absence at work, and that I still live with the folks.
I must have made an impression somewhere between that immense pile of crap.
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I have a first date with someone on Wednesday, that’s where the real awkwardness starts.
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Good luck! I hope it goes well!
For some reason, most of the time, I do a lot better in person. It’s like I’m wittier and natural when I cant over think what I want to say.
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