I always stare at my female friends chests. Im not gay but I still do it. I think it freaks them out…weirdness.
You are maybe avoiding eye contact,i stare everywhere except people’s eye
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I think you are right. I always freeze and unfortunately in a very uncomfortable place. Hopefully that’s obvious and I’m just projecting.
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Look at their foreheads.
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Never thought about that.
Everyone gets distracted by boobs, doesn’t matter what gender or sexuality you have. Boobs just attract attention what can I say hahaha
Lol. Yes but I wish I would just stare at my own hahaha. Least then I will know they have a purpose.
I don’t know how it is for others… but a lot of eye contact can get very uncomfortable for me. I end up watching peoples hands.
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Psh boobs are so useful like I’ve used mine as storage space and as a sort of shelf to put things on if I’m lying down lol. USE UR BOOBS 
My favorite professor says he actually still gets nervous talkingn to girls because he doesn’t want to look in the wrong place so he looks at their foreheads. (I thought that was so funny because I used to be so intimidated by him since he’s brilliant and then he goes and tells us that-ha)
You can also look at noses and it totally looks like eye contact.
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I try to look way down too but then I get accused of being disengaged and they want to mess with my meds. But that probley would be better lol
I look people straight in the eye- I consider it to be offensive if others do not look me in the eye. It’s just a gut feeling I have. I am known to have a sort of glare. I have some other tendencies which might explain it. I am a very forward and assertive person. Unless I am utterly exhausted or having an episode, I look people right in the eye while speaking to them.
Lack of eye contact is sometimes associated with a number of negative perceptions. It is best to look at people when they are talking to you, unless you are driving, then pay attention to the road.
Lack of eye contact often makes people feel as though you are lying in some sort of way, either omitting truth or directly lying. Eye contact is something that I just naturally do.
I had this friend with benefits a little over a year ago who returned my level of eye contact. She was bat ■■■■ crazy, sort of like me. We got along really well. We went on a first date and talked while staring at each other for a little over two hours. I lost my virginity the next night.
I heard somewhere that eye contact while silent for more than several seconds either means that the person wants to have sex with you or subconsciously wants to kill you. I make a point to keep talking and not just stare at someone silently, that just feels wrong, unless it is like during pillow talk or with someone on a date. A good thing is when you and someone you are in a dating/personal situation with stare at each other and then smile or laugh or blush or all three. What is not good is when someone glares at you without saying anything for several seconds. That means they sure as hell do not like you.
Or it could mean that they are a psychologist and just trying to mind fuggle you.
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That’s why I am encountering this. Quite a few people view lack of eye contact as shifty. I have had people get pissed cause I wouldn’t make eye contact. One doctor in the hospital would only see me if my gaze stayed with him.
I don’t like it cause it makes my vulnerable and like people can read my thoughts. And if I don’t like something its all over my face and then there is conflict and I avoid conflict.
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Fred Freeze said that people with sz often avoid eye contact. It apparently has something to do with the other person’s talking and facial expressions. We have difficulty in dealing with the conversation and the expressions. I have the same problem. I find it difficult to look people straight in the eye for longer than a few seconds. I sometimes avoid too much eye contact as I’m concerned that I’ll make the other person uncomfortable…but that is probably just my rationalization since too much eye contact makes me uncomfortable. I also tend to have better eye contact with less intimidating people. Very intelligent people is intimidating to me and then I tend to make little eye contact when in conversation with them.
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I find it a lot easier to talk to mentally ill people. I feel more equal. And most mentally ill people are not jarred by a little weirdness.
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nothing wrong with that,
maybe you have a thing about eye contact
another thing was this guy in hospital and he use to just stare at you all the time and it was really creepy so i wouldnt like to stare at someone for too long without blinking lol
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Realize that you are not real. And the other person is not real either
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Boobs are nice people never met a pair I didn’t like. Would imagine it’s just nerves be the same as trying to look at your feet when your nervous. The guys have given some good suggestions. With me I tend to try and keep eye contact for short periods of time as seems it freaks way to many out just holding it for too long.
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