Ask for everything, expect nothing, enjoy what ever you get.
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I think Iām a little too young to declare myself as anything yet. Though I am attracted to males and females alike. The thing I have noticed is, the males and the females I like are a lot alike. Male or Female I like patience and humor. Male or Female, I fall for them if they have a kind nature and a willingness to keep an open mind.
I have much to live and see and learn. Life is spinning fast and what I thought I knew of myself will be changing all the time. I canāt get upset at myself for growing.
I have decided I will cherish what friendship or more comes into my life and I will treasure the people who offer to spend some of this short time on earth with me.
If any of those relationships grow into something closer, male or female, I will cherish that as well. I have only one controllable life plan right now and that is to get into the nursing program. After that itās up in the air. I have no idea who will come into my life and interest my heart. But male or female, when they come, I will let them in.
Iām not only an optimist, Iām a bit of a romantic. 
Thank you for letting me post.
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I always like to hear from you, Kid Sis, Jameās trusty partner in crime! You have great posts!
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So I asked a guy out. We exchanged phone numbers and I think ill ask him for a coffee friday afternoon, he said to text me and see when hes off work. Ditched the female friend with benefits. I was sick of her and out of her league. This guy is in my league, heās my type too.
I posted āIm Bisexualā on facebook and people liked it and told me they thought so all along. One of my old friends said she was ārelievedā to hear me say it. One of my old friends who is openly gay himself wants to meet up and get back in touch. Apparenty he goes to my school, I think I remember seeing him the school rec center but I was psychotic and just quickly said hello and went back to working out like a madman.
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I donāt think I ever been aroused by a woman before. Not that I can remember anyway. But growing up I didnāt entertain the thought of being gay because of how much my family hated homosexuals. I think not being able to accept that part of myself is part of what led to my onset of psychosis in college. It wasnāt until after my psychosis subsided that I began to realize this is how I am and I awkwardly came to terms with it. It actually helped me become less stressed not fighting the fact anymore.
At 23 years old Iāve never had sex and Iām not very good at meeting guys, but I still like to look at least. Maybe if I get out there and meet someone who can deal with my weird then maybe I could actually have a life, lol.
I think Iām a bisexual though Iāve never been with another man. Its something I think would have gotten over if werenāt for the voices constantly calling me bisexual, they just wont let it go. I watched some gay porn the other day. Man of man and damn does that look gross. Dicks and assholes. I donāt really get it although I still pretty gay at times. Man ā ā ā ā my schizo life Iām to disconnected from people to have sex of any kind.
Lately I just havent been attracted to anyoneā¦I think it would be to hard to be in a relationship and be schizophrenic.anyway I also just discovered that I might be bisexualā¦ive been mostly with guys but I was thinking about persuing a relationship with a girl and see how that works outā¦ good luck to you and the guy
My voices called my some of my friends who I find attractive āboyfriendsā and that always bothered me. If you catch yourself jacking off to gay porn or thinking about a male while masturbating to nothing, something is up. I used to think porn was bad for the mind and just used my imagination and a fair amount of the time I ended up thinking about guys. When I was 16 I was decided on being bi but then when I was 17 I got all straight for a while and then went back to having bisexual tendencies. The whole time I found females attractive, I still do. For example, one of my friends and his girlfriend I find basically equally attractive, both are like 9/10 in my opinion but one has a ā ā ā ā ā . I actually find the guy a little more attractive. Too bad heās straight (and taken for that matter) LOL
Its hard to describeā¦its not like being bi means every guy is attractive. More like certain men are. Just like with women- im picky and have ātypesā. Straight guys dont find every female attractive, thats for sure. Homosexuality is often confused with being sexually obsessed, thats wrong, it just means some guys are attractive, sure as hell not all of them. I still like women though. I wonder what is up with bisexuality, I just figure I appreciate beauty.
Try sex with a guy ant then you know.
I think there are āperfactā ppl in both sexes. Iāve become pretty good att ācatchingā gay ppl. I donāt know how I do. Maybe itās my short hair and the tomboy in me tricking them to reveal themselves.
Maybe youāre not into that sort of thing @BryanAshley Iāve never really wanted to look at other girls like that (but then again I donāt look at guys like that either so that could be whatās going on) but I have fallen head over heels for a couple of girls (both unrequited). But for me sex is purely emotional. I am in love, therefore being with the person I love feels good to me. I donāt even like to kiss people I donāt love.
Well on one hand gay sex is gross but then again so is regular sex. Iām more of an asexual I just donāt feel a strong lust for sexual pleasure. I still find men attractive and I probably set my standards to high for women but occasionally Iāll come across ones who are just irresistable. I think at this point in my life Iād just like to forget about sex but I get this telepathy from people all day calling me straight at times and gay at others keeping my head spinning a reminds me about sex which I feel no desire for. Itās hard to over power the voices and just think freely. There really isnāt much psychological support for bisexual people in this world you really have to cut your own path. Iāve had successful interactions with women in the past and Iāve never been with dudes but Iāve lost the feeling of being straight. Anyways my ā ā ā ā ā ā ā ā psychosis just keeps me spinning over these sexual issues. Things that other people just donāt worry about. Just another barrier between me and being plugged into the world. I get the feeling that they all are actually reading my mind, and their telepathy just doesnāt stop. Iām being targeted for being the person I was born to be or at least thatās how it feels. I can stop myself from thinking but I canāt do ā ā ā ā about the voices or these ā ā ā ā ā ā ā people and their telepathy. It certainly goes away when they are not around so Iām at a loss. Sorry if Iām being long winded but this is one of the few contextually appropriate places to talk about being a bisexual schizo a small window I didnāt want to miss. Is it a coincidence that when I first started to accept my bisexuality that they started to telepath me like they were reading my mind the whole time? It all certainly feels so real to me. They tell me theyāre straight people and that they arenāt bisexual itās so ā ā ā ā ā ā ā stupid they are just ā ā ā ā ā ā ā with me. I know Iām running away from sense but I feel if I get all this out there then maybe someone who can relate will read it.
Good topic but old. In my case i took various gay tests and below are my scores and you will understand my sexuality.
From: vistriai.com/gaytest/ i am 30% gay
From: illnessquiz.com/gay-test/ i am not gay but 35% chances.
I am a lesbian. I have always been only attracted to women. I have never dated a guy before. My fiancee and I are engaged to be married July 13th 2015.
**By married I mean a domestic partnership. As marriage for us is not legal in our state.
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Congratulations Sasha on your engagement and soon to be marriage (domestic partnership)
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Im not interested in sex at all. Yes Im attracted to women, well I was when I was a teenager but the interest fades quickly in your 20ās. You seek out emotional bonds then. You want intimacy, not just sex. Anyway, Im 37 now and have as much interest in sex as I would trigonometry. It would just bore me.
As a feminist, it hurts my heart to hear of people being marginalized due to their gender, their I.Q., or their looks. Itās the very attitude that perpetuates anorexia.
I know Iām not macho, I have to log off now, Iām not feeling well.
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Sorry. My shrink is an elitist. He specializes in high functioning people, most of his patients are doctors and lawyers and bright kids.
I used to be anorexic, I think you donāt really understand what makes one anorexic- not to belittle you, but I was diagnosed with it. It usually happens when people desire to be perfect or ābetterā or have been brainwashed by media- most often, anorexic people are intelligent, overly polite and NOT promiscuous. Itās basically a good-person disorder. I had it when I transferred to an elite international school and wanted to fit in desperately. It is known to happen during periods of social isolation- the summer between high schools was when I developed it. I wanted to be perfect and funny and smart AND good looking, I spent lots of time on my hair, I had long hair at the time.
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James I dont mean to upset you, I just rambled about my sexual preferences. I dont marginalize women, I dont think I said that anywhere. I dont dislike ugly people, I just dont want to have sex with them. I am a snob about intelligence thoughā¦but all people with schizophrenia are exempt because of the whole cognitive impairment thing.
Im not a maninist or whateverā¦I mean I enjoy sucking cock and was anorexic myself.
And do keep in mind that I am an outlier and CAN be picky about people being in shape and prettyā¦It doesnt make sense for a good-looking, jacked and highly intelligent young man to fall for perfectly average people. I mean come on, that would be weird. I value intelligence and health, people dont have to be perfect. Ive turned down attractive people because they werenāt intelligent, I give intelligent people more wiggle room, they donāt have to be all that attractive. It just wouldnt make sense for someone like me to date a fat country bumpkin who didnt finish high school, I live in the south and there are plenty of those here.
my intamacy is rather limited due to my shy nature. however you could consider me bisexual, ive had intimacy(sexually) with both male and female. for the men, my sexual arousal wasnt there but something else was. i was more emotionally involved within the men and loved just talking and having chats with gay and straight men. however with females i cannot relate to much so have trouble finding seeking out my nature and actually committing to a proper relationship and to find that intimacy, just have trouble emotionally with women coz i dont know what its like i guess. although a good chat is a fun time no matter on the person.
but if you have these desires i suggest seek them out within limits and find out what it feels like on both levels, all i can offer is you just know by finding out what u need to find out, p.s just dont seek one demographic thats attractive be open instead.
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