When’s the right time. ? Is six months to early?
Propose right away…
In Indian terms is about right but I don’t think he thinks he ready
What? Six months? That’s some crazy ■■■■ right there.
Just kidding.
It is crazy though. To me.
For me, anything less than 2 years would be rushing it.
Just do it right away
Do it when he’s ready and you feel comfortable too.
My Mom always told me in one year you get to know the other person. If you propose now maybe you could have a long engagement. Otherwise, I do not know. If you know the person is right for you, and you will know, go ahead.
6 months seems way too early to me
For marriage? You or him?
I’d say after a couple years,
After living together for a least a year.
I just made an inappropriate comment so I’m deleting it
Long after he has met family and it is more like a normal relationship
I get a little worried when people who haven’t lived together make promises to get married. In other words, swear they’ll live together forever.
Like, how can you know it will work out if you haven’t given it a try?
It depends on the culture, though.
In my culture, you need to know the other person and their family well first.
In other cultures, it seems inappropriate to live together without getting married first. So it all depends.
If you feel certain about your relationship, and you know you want to spend a lot of time with him, any time is the right time.
I’m not known for making wise decisions so I’m not saying anything. @Berru in my moms family ppl marry b4 living together. My dad has lived with women without being married so it just depends I guess
As someone who was going to get married after 5 months, definitely don’t spring for it that early. I’ve quickly figured out I’m way better off not doing that and letting things go a different route. Waiting a couple of years is reasonable, It gives you time to really get an idea of who the other person is and stuff like their reliability and stability as well as how they live at home. I highly recommend cohabitating first to get an idea of how your partner lives. I had some partners who seemed great until I lived with them.
I dated my husband for 2 years before getting engaged, then we were engaged for another year before getting married.
6 months seems crazy short.
Thanks guys it may be we decide not to marry but just live together … But I am still not going to turn away from the possibility.
I lived with my ex wife for a year before we got married and looking back this was not enough time.
I would live together for at least 2 years if not more before committing to a marriage.
There are too many divorces out there.
October 7th, 2:30 pm…I hope this helped.