Lol new guy but apparently not a date
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Ish my date today cancelled. He has to go to see his parents. But we said we would arrange another time. And the thing is, we spoke on the phone for a couple of minutes. I think maybe he didn’t like my voice. But I get shy on the phone so. But then he texted me and called me babe so I’m not sure.
I spoke to my “friend” for a month before we met and a few times via video so I know it’s the person he said he was. Experience taught me to do that. I’ve turned up to a date and a completely different person turn up. 
so it’s up to you but maybe speak to him more and video if you’re comfortable ?
The thing is, the first time he wanted to meet up, he said we should go for a walk and if I like him go back to his place to watch a movie. I prefer to be courted a little bit and to me that seemed like very little effort. I don’t go to the houses of strange men. That isn’t especially wise. I might just let this one go to be honest. He is a software developer and he seemed to be a traditionalist and share similar values but I’m not super attracted to him. And he has my brothers name. But he says he wants me to be his even though we haven’t even met yet.
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That seems highly dangerous. Could have suggested a movie in the cinema so I agree with you you are wise for what you’ve decided. To be honest he does not sound very “traditional”. Just be safe. Stay in public surroundings. I’ve gotten into stupid situations that could have been avoided.
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Yeah I’m dating other guys so I think I’ll let him go. I’m the serial dater now Ish lol.
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don’t you ever get bored with all these dates & people?
Only if they chat ■■■■ before I meet them. I don’t have many friends so I’m kind of lonely. So no I don’t get bored. Not when I’m treated with some respect. I hadn’t actually been on a date in over 7 months before this one.
No. I’m the same as Ish. I don’t have many friends so for the moment, this is my socialising.
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my sole socializing is auditory hallucinations…
I dont like people much… so I dont know…
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everyone needs respect and socializing. we, people, are social animals.
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