I’m not sure I agree with the overly simplistic attitude of it’s either a curse or a blessing to be neurodiverse. Some people who are neurodiverse excel while others really struggle and can not live independently. For many of us it’s a balance of strengths and weaknesses. For those of us of an older generation who’ve never had our neurodiversity recognised it’s meant going without help and support for those difficulties . Being seen innaccurately solely through the lens of a psychiatric diagnosis due to mental health problems that developed from peer group and societal reactions to our neurodiversity . As my not too intelligent housemaster once said when I was being bullied “Some boys are the type to be bullied”, as though that excused the bullying.
The way forward should be to encourage and foster strengths while providing support for the things we struggle with. To stop seeing it simplistically as a blessing vs a curse.