?))) - What Would You Lyke Your Tombstone To Say - (((?

I Once For Tha First T(Y)me Thot That and Was Astonished Because I NVR Thot That Before … ,

I Looked Around and Was L(Y)ke … ,

" oops … , Hmmm , Well That Was Weird . " …

I never wanted a tombstone. I told my family that if it was all the same to them, I wanted my ashes scattered and a tree planted, no marker. But if it wasn’t all the same to them, I wanted them to do whatever gave them the most comfort. I believe strongly that memorials should serve the living, not the dead.

A Tombstone Can Serve Tha Living … ,

One Day After I Was Visiting My Mom’s Grave ,

I Wandered Throo Tha Graveyard and Quietly Looked At All Tha Tombstones ,

Some had Flowers With Them Some had Unopened Beers Sitting Next To Them … ,

Some Had Photos ,

I Jus Wandered and It Felt Lyke My mom Went To A Better Place … ,

Tha Wind Picked Up and Almost Howled As I Left …

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Nevermynde … ,

I Thot You Sayd Something Else …

I Suppose I Am Trying To Say a Tombstone Can Serve Both …

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Exactly that. That’s what I meant when I told them. If they want a tombstone for me, I want them to have one. I would want it to say whatever gave them the most comfort. I want to be cremated, but if that’s disturbing to my family, they’re alive and I’m not and whatever they need is way more important. I have no attachment to my body after death. It’s important to me that they know that my wishes are that they hurt as little as possible.

I feel the same way about funerals, I think they should do whatever gives them the most comfort. Their memory of me is for them, not for me.

I (years ago) When I Decided To Commit Suicide ,

I Searched and Searched Throo Many Songs and Albums To Fynde Something That Would Make Them Feel No Pain (my family) and I Searched and Searched and Searched and Searched … ,

Tha First Song and No Album Was Gonna Be PLACE TO BE (by) NICK DRAKE … ,

and Tha Album Was Gonna Be PARACHUTES (by) COLDPLAY … ,

I Never D(Y)D It But I Was Serious About It At Tha T(Y)me … ,

I Survived … ,

Tha Whole Death Nonsense Is Jus That ,

It’s Nonsense , Something Out Of Our Control … ,

But Tha Lil Moments We Share Before Our After Is and Will Always Be Important … ,

and Whats Amazing Is ,

That Even After We Are Gone Our Spirits Can Speak … ,

But Here’s Where It Splits … ,

If We Arent Careful , That Wishing To Give Comfort Can Eat Us Alive …


Dont know u replied to me?

Only thing I ever remember(which is in my dreams too) is severe abuse and continous beating and rape. My family says nothing of such happened (in case I believe them — which i dont) then this is a memory of my past life.

I am seriously considering Past life regression Therapy and Hypnosis. It will make my life for the better (hopefully)

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I had false memories of family members abusing me. I was completely positive I was raped as a child, my doctor said is a fairly common delusion between sz patients.

I don’t interpert that as a memory from a past life.

I also have memories from past lives which are intierly different from the false memories, are more like visions, but that doesn’t mean they are real…

ur Doctor???

yes… lol sorry saurav, but it was extremelly difficult for me to make advancements in my recovery I won’t just dismiss all of that to accomodate your views on what things should be like… you said you were going back to meds, I wish you do.

I want to meditate …hopefully will do so.

This person Ajahn Brahm says you can remember your previous lives by this technique:

Anyway I am going for Past life regression/hypnosis like Next week…need to know what the hell was that memory.

Wish you good luck with that, let me know how it went.

Back to my tombstone now.

It will read “Don’t freak out, im standing right behind you.”


----------------- > Dig . Please Dig . < -----------------------


Alright than, mine would say “I’ll be right back”

Hmm ,

---------------- > Dig . Please . Dig . Wait . Where’s Tha Shovel ? < ----------------

To further my tombstone i will pay someone to lay in wait for people to read it.

He’ll sneak up behind them quietly so when they turn around he is there.

His script reads “why are you reading my tombstone?”

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I Have A Story For You All … ,

Please Get Ready For Some Awesomeness … ,

Are Ya Ready (???) ,

Probs Naught , But Lez Continue N E Wayze Shall e(Y)e (???) ,

I Shall … ,

So In Order To Be Tha Master Of Tha Universe You Will Need A Couple Of Items … ,

So Please Continue Enjoi-ing Your Dai … ,

First You Will Need A Shovel … ,

Then You Will Need 1000 Balloons … ,

Then You Will Need A Purse … ,

OK ,

Now Fill Up Tha Balloons With Water … ,

All Of Them … ,

Now Sit and Wait For Tha Balloons To Turn Into Red Food Colouring … ,

Now Grab Your Purse … ,

Grab Your Shovel … ,

and Tie Tha Balloons Together and Grab Them All … ,

Now Walk To Tha Closest Desert … ,

When You Get To Tha Center Of Tha Desert Dig A Hole Into Tha Center Of Thee Earth … ,

When You Get To Tha Center You Will Meet A Turtle … ,

You Will have Already Put Tha Balloons To Tha Side Before You Started Digging … ,

Now , Squirtle On Tha Turtle … ,

Now Put Tha Turtle In Yoru Purse and Climb To Tha Top … ,

Now Leave Tha Balloons and Walk North … ,

Walk North With Your Turtle Friend and Meet Up With George Washington … ,

When You See Him , Hand Him Your Turtle Friend and Go back Home … ,


It Has Been A Marvelous Dai For You … ,

now Please Enjoi Being Master Of Tha Universe …

All On My Tombstone …

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I shall keep the turtle and call it snuggles