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a middle ground exists!
my problem is all the girls i know seem to be in relationships…meanwhile im a recovering SZ and it feels like I’ve been in a haze the last 10 years of my life while all the good girls developed relationships…now all the girls seem to like me all of a sudden but are married/dating already.
i don’t wanna date a girl that has a rich relationship history either as I don’t…and i don’t like young girls either.
it’s a dilemma.
Yeah the 20 - 23 year old girls I know have sexed with at least one of the dudes I know… The older ones are totally outside of my circle. Met a pretty stunning barista but soon found she was in a relationship… Will have to wait on that, but I’d probably get to attached if she was just trying to make a rebound ■■■■ wouldn’t work.
There are some down to mars girls out there. Just gotta be patient and not miss any opportunities.
Gonna make it my routine to ride my bike downtown and have a beer every day. 5$ well 6 including tip. 5 mile round trip. Might help me shape up a bit. Gained about 20 lbs in the first few months after being hospitalized… blah blah blah… mind is waking up.
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That middle ground is called a happy medium.
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they really want is a person who ain’t szpherenik…
just stand still …she’ll get you eventually.
The women in my town want a helping hand.
(And relationship based on trust and communication.)
Plus they just want to have fu-un.
And o’course money is good too.
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Thanks for the update man…where you at?
Michigan, U.S.A.
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Michigan …grand forks was rated at the top of the list for …well for living
I know this much about sex, romance and relationship after 200 of them: Co-Dependence is the common cult-ural norm. If you take the time to understand what it is, you can save a whooooooooooole lotta time (and grief) in the ring.
Google Melody Beattie, Pia Mellody, Anne Wilson Schaef, Charles Whitfield, Sharron Wegscheider and Barry & Janae Weinhold, who wrote the best books I’ve read thus far on the topic. (I don’t think one can ever learn too much about the human condition… and co-dependence is it.)
Because… Information Is Power.
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I want a clingy person!!! lol (I 'm not joking)
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I just love stalkers. (Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!)
they might like me .cuz a bit like … and… cuz I care…lol…
That’s a lot of stuff to research. Can you summarize what you’ve learned for us lazy bastards! 
This thread turned out NOTHING like I was expecting! 
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I found that a lot of women want to feel secure - financial and emotional security are very important to many females.
They want to feel safe
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I like wimps. Said no women ever.
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A WOMAN’S PRAYER
Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray for a man, who’s not a creep.
One who’s handsome,
smart and strong.
He’s not afraid to admit
when he is wrong.
One who thinks
before he speaks.
When he promises to call,
he doesn’t wait 6 weeks.
I pray that he is gainfully employed,
wont lose his cool when he’s annoyed.
Pulls out my chair & opens my door,
massages my back & begs to do more.
Oh! Send me a man who will
make love to my mind.
Knows just what to say when I
ask “How fat is my behind?”
One who’ll make love
till my body’s a twitchin’
He brings ME a sandwich too,
when he goes to the kitchen!
I pray that this man
will love me to no end,
And would never compare me
with my best girlfriend.
Thank You in advance
and now I’ll just wait,
for I know You will send him before it’s too late.
Amen
IMO women take life too seriously. They need to relax. It’s only life.