What version of yourself do you show online?

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what version of yourself do you show online?

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Depends. Here I have to be more of a hard a$$ at times. Most of the time I am just the same as I am in person.

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Myself. But I have an issue where I can’t adjust how I act for different situations. People tell me I’m exactly the same all the time. It can be good. But it can also be bad.

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many different forms of myself can work

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I try to show a calm, reasonable and compassionate side of myself to the best of my ability. I notice though that sometimes I’m just cerebral. Sometimes I try to be funny but apparently I’m not funny.

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Awww, I wouldn’t say that, I find some of your posts rather humorous :smiley:

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That’s the devil’s dancing ya know :see_no_evil:

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I definitely hide how I am feeling a lot of the time. I also mask a lot and adopt masks from my past, but I hate doing that. For example, my boss at work treats me like a child and so I act like one, up to and including throwing a tantrum. My friend treats me like I am property, so I become a slave. Etc. etc.

I use these learnings for self development, to figure out my boundaries and to become less yielding. I’m still building towards a better version of me, but there is at least a plan.

To some random online observer though I probably seem enigmatic.

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I am king of kings and also king of the pelvic thrust.

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I show my sexy side online :kissing_smiling_eyes:

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Fact check:

Accurate.

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The confident one , I’m shy irl but not shy around family.

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A goody two shoe version. :grin::grin::grin::athletic_shoe:

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Nope, nope, nope and nope. You only put one shoe! We can see right through you.

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It depends on how I am. Most of the time the creepy incompetent guy come across. Maybe you’ve noticed. Sometimes when I have more control kinda like not I have a cocky sort of attitude. I don’t know how to be compassionate online. I don’t try. Sensible would be nice. But I’m not there yet. Informative is good

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Compassion is somewhere in me. But I need to heal

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I’m more guarded online but that’s for my own safety. Other than that, who you get online is who I am irl.

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I tend to be more open about the things that are bothering me here because it’s a support forum. In real life I’m incredibly guarded about things like that.

Irl I think I’m also a lot more bubbly and fun. Apparently through text I seem very somber or so I’ve been told. Apparently it throws people off when they finally actually talk to me lol.

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