Practically three days no cigarette and we have the most beautiful three hour conversation. Then this morning he wakes me up with please don’t smoke. Then the evening I sent him a total of five message including two pics!! Last message “did I say something or are you busy”? Undoubtedly he is going under ground???
Don’t jump to conclusions - just hold off and see what happens. You don’t really know.
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I’d try not to see too much in it. Easier said then done I’m afraid. We all need space sometimes. Men more so as we are just islands most of the time. We males generally use less words than women per day.
Hopefully it will just be that and nothing drastic.
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Yeah…
i know how it feels
Sooner you get the fact that there’s no change to it you’ll feel better.
They are just sick.
I don’t see him as sick (like in a bad way). I just never saw so much much love and sweetness’ in somebody directing it your direction only to close off. He makes me do that stupid smirk expression like there is a side joke that only we get and nobody else cares cause we are both in a different boat.
I’m with szAdmin. I’m getting way to upset and I’m going to ruin it. He just needs space.
He could be asking you not to smoke because it’s a damage to your health and he wants you to be around and healthy.
I’m glad you give patience a chance. It does sound like he does like you.
Good luck and I hope this friendship continues to grow.
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well I am hoping you stay off the cigs. I am on day 2 and I can’t always understand how it was that I thought smoking was o k every time I get away from them? He should be attentive to your texts. I hope you don’t feel used.
jukebox, I’m so glad. Day two is the hardest in my opinion. We may be mentally ill but we are not saps for the tobacco industry to build an empire on. An evil empire at that. You can do it! I’ve got faith in you.
He just texted and said he’s at work. He says everything is ok but doesn’t sound talkative. I’m so glad I asked here.
Good advice. Thank you
I think it will. This has been going on for a year but we get some things like he points out. I guess I just flipped out cause he was so adorable this morning then disappeared. Very strange
I sent him another couple very supportive and positive text messages yesterday and God told me to leave him alone now he is in his cave. *sigh
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