I quit doing drugs and cut off people taking advantage of me in life
Someone offered me to drink some tea with a very potent drug together, one that didn’t sound fun at all, I was too scared so I declined, heaven knows what would have happened if actually did it.
I had a nervous breakdown. It was the only way I knew to break away from the way I was living.
- Not getting married and having kids.
I was diagnosed at 39. I would have ended up a useless husband and father. I know that’s not the case for everyone with schizophrenia, but it would have been for me.
- Going to AA
I thought alcohol was worth dying for when I first went. I was desperate and got lucky as they helped.
- Going to the psych ward voluntarily for my 2nd admission.
Getting hospital treatement.
It wasn’t willful, but I accepted to stay…
Putting on clozapine was best call, and had great psychiatrist
Saying yes dear to my wife.
Maybe not smart, per se … but having my daughter. Couldn’t imagine life without her.
Besides that…. Going to volunteer in Kenya for 3 months right out of high school. Could never manage to do something like that now
It’s not that I’ve done smart things so much as I have stopped doing dumb things.
Most of them.
I chose not to have children.
Marrying my husband. He has been so supportive the past 12 years, and i wouldnt have made it through this rollar coaster without him.
Bravest was moving far away at 18 yo
Smartest was finding places to live and securing jobs
Hardest was living with hubby when he gambled money all the time for years and mistreated me but ive forgave him
Heartbreaking was not having kids i really wanted some
I dread losing anyone else, all my grandparents are gone
I dont argue on the internet
Smartest thing, and hardest, was moving out of my parents’ house and going 5000 miles away…it forced me to learn how to be independent and learn how to better appreciate the things they do (and did) to help me.
Divorcing a beast of a first wife.
In 1995 I quit partying
Hey, that’s the year I was born!
Great job Leafy.
See, you came along and straightened me out. lol
Of course there’s been a few slip up in recent times, but I’m addressing that
Haha! Partying is over rated anyways. Health is wealth!
I broke up with my abusive boyfriend. Best decision I’ve ever made.