what is the key to social confidence…you kknow like mixing.
Smile
Repeat something positive to yourself
It seems to me the key to social confidence is the complete lack of insight.
what do you mean exactly twang
I think it about not caring what others think people who are confident don’t care? I don’t know im pretty shy.
I mean lack of insight in the traditional sense of self-knowledge and understanding of our own motivations, desires, and fears. Maybe a goofy idea but I seem to be aware of so many inner thoughts and feelings in a social situation that confident people seem simple-minded, if not downright stupid by comparison.
Why not ask the most questions you can so they can take interest in the interesting?
my family never shut up and we all shout to get heard there are very few silences. its people wwho aren’t close to me I cant seem to gell with.