Because open book is kind of like, refreshing in a way.
But I understand mysterious because, I am a bit mysterious. So I enjoy ppl who are mysterious too, as long as they are not planning to harm me, or such.
Do you have a preference? And what is your reasoning.
I’m going to guess that most or all of you prefer an open book but I might be wrong
I used to be very mysterious. Nobody knew anything about me. And I’d fall for very mysterious men.
Now I’m open. My friends are honest to a fault. And in dating, I want people to be very open too. I do not like if people are mysterious. It makes me hyperalert, because I am scared of what they are hiding and why. I even prefer blunt over mysterious.
I do feel not everyone who is mysterious plays games. I used to be mysterious. Not because I played games. But because I had no words for my own thoughts and feelings (alexythymia).
Yea I like people I feel safe to be pretty open with too. When they are like that, I can feel I can be like that too. It’s nice… Though I also have a little mystery to me, which is not game playing.
Unless I’m doing something unfair that I don’t even realise…
My friends are very open books and I do enjoy that.
At least that is what it feels like to me, that they are open books. I highly admire and appreciate it.