Well I got my testing done

I have to wait until the 18th for the results. T_T

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Good luck, man!

Theyā€™re probably going to label me a suicide risk x_x

Best of luck! ā€¦

why is that? are you?

Not really, I just trend toward general nihilism and thatā€™s generally reflected in my responses on one of the tests. The administrator stopped me on my way out and asked if I needed immediate attention.

You look so charming in that profile pic. :heart_eyes_cat:

Thank you <3

Nobody else thinks so. They all think Iā€™m crazy

Iā€™ve been single for almost two years now, I donā€™t even have any friends anymore.

Well youā€™re legit cute, Saraā€™s right.

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I donā€™t pass the crazy/hot scale though

Iā€™ve also been putting on weight, which makes me feel a lot worse about it too

Im sorry youā€™re feeling so down.
I refuse to believe that you are nothing less that great, smart- and extravagant person.
Think about that attitude though. If nothing else, try to appear self confident, the rest you already have. :wink:

I made a tinder account a few weeks ago when I was really bored, the only person who matched me is a friend of mine

I was really just hoping I could make some friends. I had made one friend and things were pretty cool until we just fell off really hard for no reason. She started being really mean to me and doing things to make me upset. My only other friend is her room mate now, heā€™s a musician I used to play shows with a few years ago. She took his phone one night while he was sleeping and started sending me things to make me upset, and after fatz got kicked out and moved in there she would say things like ā€œI was laying naked on the couch and fatz wouldnā€™t nail meā€ and she started hanging out with guy I really despise, heā€™s such a fuckboy, and sheā€™d be like oh iā€™m gonna let him do me in the butt, and like I had no romantic interest in this lady, I just wanted a friend, somebody to hang out with because I hate being at home all the time. But it made me really uncomfortable, I still donā€™t understand why. She would also say mean things to me, she compared me to her ex husband once and that made me really angry. It was completely uncalled for and frankly didnā€™t make and god damn sense

Thatā€™s really rambly. Sorry, iā€™m not doing very well. I never am, really. This is the only place I really feel comfortable talking to people. Everyone is so mean.

Uh man thatā€™s why we are here. Wait Iā€™m still thinking about your post Iā€™m slow lol.

Can you talk with her about that particular behaviour? I know that much of relationships to see that the lack of communication is no.1 cause of all fights and misunderstandings.
So much pain could be avoided if people would be able to sit down and have a calm talk.
I dont know about tinder, Iā€™ve never been around the dating sites.
Havenā€™t you been a little euphoric a while ago? When you posted those pics with your friends?

I tried, it didnā€™t help. Iā€™ve dropped all contact with her and unfortunately fatz as well.

On tinder you just swipe right if somebodyā€™s hot, and swipe left if they arent

She does sound like a " seduce and abuse" type of girl. Those people are very hard to deal with but they hurt inside too.

It does seem so. She said once that everybody is just trying to sleep with her and she leads them on because if she didnā€™t they wouldnā€™t be her friend and eventually theyā€™ll find a girlfriend and theyā€™ll just be a friend.

Yeah, I get it, very well.
But she is probably not the best company for you at the moment.
If you really donā€™t feel able to socialize right now, maybe you could use that ā€˜time-outā€™ to work on yourself?

People always say that, but I donā€™t understand what itā€™s supposed to mean