Weak...👎🏾 Harm isn't

Cruelty isn’t strong. It’s addictive and entertaining but real life … Cruelty is weak af

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They say all cruelty comes from weakness

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Real life poet… I’ve seen my share of cruelty and have even been cruel at times. Im sure you have a better understanding of why cruelty is from weakness but I feel like I just had an insight about it and I think it’s wack as hell.

I understand justice and punishment but cruelty never comes from a constructive place.

I’m gonna try my best to fight the hate and potential cruelty in myself. I’m done with harm bro…

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That’s a brave thing to do bro. Altruism is a rare trait. Putting others first is a heroic thing to do. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Yep…it’s hard to cultivate tho. I really don’t know how to get it going in my life right now tho. I feel the world is against me alot of the times and I hold a lot of anger because of it. When I can believe people don’t want to hurt me I find myself far more altruistic but it’s tough. And I don’t think I had a lot before the sz …

Anyways man I hope your doing good and liking your job!!! I’m thinking of going back to work myself :+1:t5:

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Cool man! I believe like rocky said “it’s not about how hard you can hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep going”

Maybe some self care is in order to make ya feel alright to keep going.

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Cruelty usually comes from a person that is offended and is annoyed because people have disrespected their persona - and they want to validate their emotions.

Its one of the first signs of Psychopathy.

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A lot of them out there.

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Happens in a lot of Personality Disorder Cases as well. They are unable to read other people emotions and react to them proportionally. So their response is usually violent or manipulative. Because in their head - they are feeling under threat - because they don’t understand it. A Typical Fight Flight response.

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Sounds like SZ in general.

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No. Schizophrenics usually show empathy. And therefore are not prone to violence. Those sz’s you see in the the news, having battered someone - usually have a a co-morbid personality disorder, that is aggravated by substance misuse and are usually not medication compliant.

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I agree. It seems like some people take cruelty as a way of survival. Like we have to be cruel to survive. I do my best not to be cruel in any way to people. And when somebody is being cruel to me I try to not take it so personally. I am trying my darndest not to take cruelty as a way of survival.

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Yea… I’m thankful for compassion and understanding.

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I feel like sometimes I don’t have enough feelings of empathy but that doesn’t mean people have to be cruel …right?

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True I have empathy and am not violent.

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When people are cruel to me I just let it sizzle in my head and then carry on.

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No one expects you to be a bloody angel. But people being cruel is on their terms and their Karma not yours.

I always say. Love your Brother and your Sister in your Community. They dont know what crap your going thru - just like you dont know theirs.

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Cruelty is part of the fallen nature of man.

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