Watching porn

Have you tried Viagra. That helped me when I was on respiradone and found it difficult to get an erection.

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they gave me something last year but it didn’t work very well if at all, just not in the right mood really idk

I think porn is hilarious. And gross. But sex just looks gross in general. Mostly it’s hilarious because of the bad acting and who-gives-a-crap writing. Oh man, I’ve laughed pretty hard before.

Honestly I don’t really see too much of the sexual appeal of porn. But apparently girls get off more through reading than watching? It was something like that, read it in my psychology magazine a while back and thought it was interesting. Explains why women have “romance” novels! Hahaha

My wife watches soap operas … they seem to do something for her. ;–/

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Ya it is a good thing and a bad thing, ive been interested in nudey pictures since i got a divorce, and its been such a while since ive had a girlfriend. it does have an effect on how u relate to women, and as a result ive tried to reduce how much i watch them.

i will eventually stop altogether.\

I was such a passionate lover in my 20s.

I know one asexual, she dresses provocatively and craves attention.

I told my shrink about her, he thinks she has been traumatized. She told me she has panic attacks and I told her to see a doctor. She’s a little eccentric, no, about eccentric as possible and seems to have some sort of personality disorder, probably schizotypal.

But apparently she is trans now.

I’ve never met another asexual. You aren’t asexual, are you? I’m curious about it.

You seemed pretty adiment about asexuality.

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I like to think that asexuals are rare…sheesh…I have a pair of step cousins female and they both don’t need a man. they live with each other and are nonidentical twins, forget what that’s called, anyways, my step son is asexual and he is a lot to deal with…it’s not natural to not crave sex I believe.

hey,

Sex and it’s needs and wants is brain chemistry too!

Always had a healthy sexual appetite even when not in a relationship so porn isn’t a bad thing! Nothing wrong with being horny and self pleasure isn’t a bad thing! One has needs.

Truly. Most porn these days is so accessible that it’s becoming a bit of a strange thing! I tend to think it’s all becoming a bit more debased and brutal. It’s like our old understandings of sex and love are all being passed by…

But honestly folks. Porn has always been there even back in the Greek and Roman times…Bisexuality was common and it wasn’t till the Elizabethan age that sex became an issue…

Yes. Ascpects of Porn will change society…but to say it’s never been a thing is wrong and it’s nothing that we haven’t seen some thing about. I guess you’ll find that society will eventually find it all too strange and censor it eventually and that societal thing will change!

Meanwhile …I continue to watch porn…but grew up with 70’s porn…no matter how bad I love over acting and story porn no matter how bad! hahaha

Lighten up people.

A friend in the struggle,

rogueone.

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so good to see you post @rogueone I wish you weren’t so scarce on here !!

hey jukebox,

Thanks! I’d like to stay a bit more but myself and the admins here have a long history and I’m just so over the drama. It’s counterproductive and no good for anyone including me!

Beware those " Tourists ". The modern internet world is full of folks who prey on those who are afflicted. It’s sad that this site chose to ally themselves with such individuals over those who suffer mental illness!

haha.

Take care,

A friend in the struggle,

rogueone.

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Thank you Mouse for your reply, interesting about your friend, I found it unusual for an asexual to dress provocatively, but if you think she has schizotypal personality disorder, she could be craving social attention to fix a possible aversion to sociality, just not sure about the most reasonable way to go about it, and decides to take the easy way with it. Of course trauma can lead to having schizotypal too. Well, hope she is happy with her transitioning and all that.

I consider myself asexual, yes. As well as aromantic, which could change over time, whereas the asexuality very most likely won’t. The trick is to find another asexual in a word heavily dominated by sexuals. But for now I find myself feeling uncomfortable with kissing and even cuddling. Never used to be this way, don’t know what happened.

Hey take care Mouse, hope you have a wonderful day!

I might be a little unusual here, but I am a woman who watches porn. I also own sex toys. My boyfriend and I have a lot of fun in bed too. I’ve always had a high sex drive, but since treating my psychosis with meds and ECT I can’t use my imagination anymore. I can’t visualize very well or for long so it helps to watch something. I am able to watch it and imagine it’s my boyfriend and the times I’ve had with him. I’m not alone in embracing sexuality as a female. My cousin sells cookware and bags and has now branched out into toys. I’m looking forward to something my boyfriend and I can have fun with.

People usually view porn as something that is degrading to women. In real life it’s quite the opposite. Porn stars have become business women who have their own websites and market themselves. They create wish lists and people send them all kinds of gifts. It’s an interesting evolution of dating as they talk to fans about who they really are. Than their fans watch their movies so it’s almost like they’re having sex. And they make pretty decent money with it.

There’s obviously issues that arise, but that’s with anything. I know some people become addicted to porn or there’s underage or rape movies made. But for the majority of it and people it’s a healthy release. Maybe because I’m a woman I see sex as different than men, so I can’t speak for everybody. But for me I like it in my life. :sun_with_face:

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You wouldn’t like me as president…one of the executive orders I would give would be to shut down the entire porn industry, the magazines, videos, movies, music, strip clubs, and sex slavery… all of it in one wipe and flushed…making it a crime with stiff penalties.

Sure, there may be a few who view it as a business, and maybe even do some good things with the money they make. That doesn’t make it right. Doesn’t matter what they think or do, it’s the affect it has on people in general.

Porn causes desensitization, causes brain changes, leads to relationship problems, and in extreme cases, rape and murder…
And people who are into it think nothing of playing music where kids are around like here

McDonald’s has been forced to apologise after explicit rap music featuring lyrics about RAPE and UNDERAGE SEX was played in one of its restaurants. …According to the Western Telegraph, McDonald’s has apologised to Mr Davidson, who runs the Three Crowns pub in Milford Haven, and said the ‘content and the lyrics were wholly inappropriate and had no place in McDonald’s’.
Mr Davidson told the paper: “The bottom line is that it’s bordering on pornography. It certainly shouldn’t be playing in a restaurant where they sell Happy Meals to children.
“The lyrics are disgusting, they are very explicit - not just a bit risqué or a bit of swearing. It’s not what you want while you’re having your breakfast.
“You have to be over 18 to download it, for them to be playing it somewhere that attracts children is obviously a concern.”

I’ve been on jobs where it’s all adults, maybe 1 or 2 16 or 17 year olds and heard similar crap…MOST of the adults do not like it and think it’s gross, and thank God enough complained that it was turned off.

When I was 14 and in private school the staff took us to see several R rated horror/slasher type movies…some bordered on X rated and one had explicit sex acts, boobs, and a scene where a girl bit off a guys thing and spit it out! that is freaking sick man! And just because those adult staff were technically our guardians while at the school, it was way way over the line to take kinds age 13 - 17 to watch that disgusting garbage.

These are NOT isolated incidents.

If it were up to me i would ban it all, as i believe sex to be a private act between 2 people, and should be between 2 people who love each other - not flaunted in magazines and on the computer and movie screen for anyone to see. A physical act that involves personal intimacy, procreation, bonding between 2 people, and emotion/love should never be portrayed as just a physical act of pleasure, lust, etc…

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This goes along with what SZadmin posted…

According to Dines’s research the prevalence of porn means that men are becoming desensitised to it, and are therefore seeking out ever harsher, more violent and degrading images. Even the porn industry is shocked by how much violence the fans want, she says; at the industry conferences that Dines attends, porn makers have increasingly been discussing the trend for more extreme practices. And the audience is getting younger. Market research conducted by internet providers found that the average age a boy first sees porn today is 11; a study from the University of Alberta found that one third of 13-year-old boys admitted viewing porn; and a survey published by Psychologies magazine in the UK last month found that a third of 14- to 16-year-olds had first seen sexual images online when they were 10 or younger – 81% of those polled looked at porn online at home, while 63% could easily access it on their mobile phones.
“I have found that the earlier men use porn,” says Dines, "the more likely they are to have trouble developing close, intimate relationships with real women. Some of these men prefer porn to sex with an actual human being.

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2010/jul/02/gail-dines-pornography

I have seen many such studies going back to the 80s.

For some reason… I just don’t get porn. It just doesn’t do anything for me. Don’t know why. Like ALL movies… I have a hard time staying with the plot.

Then when there doesn’t seem to be a plot… I end up focusing on odd things…
like the painting in the background or the lamp on the table…

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I felt same way even before I was a Christian…I ALWAYS wanted a one woman relationship/marraige…even as a little kid. I had a hard enough time as a teenager watching my friends cheat on their girlfriends or my female friends being cheated on…and it seemed like everyone was doing it! Well, not everyone but probably 90%, realistically.

Porn to me seemed like a plastic artificial NOTHINGNESS. I believed in relationships, bonding with REAL PEOPLE, and sexuality was meant to be a part of those type of relationships, so porn always seemed dark and foreign to me, like something from a bad alien planet set out to invade and destroy the earth.

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Archives…

I rarely watch porn. I used to like the JOI genre. Now I prefer to use my own imagination and think about girls I am into or irk me in a special kind of way.

I would google JOI but I have no idea what I’d find.

Care to enlighten me?

Jerk off instructional. Basically the girl does her thing while talking dirty to you. It is kind of like POV porn.