Want sterilization done

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Ok i went to a gynecologist today.

It turns out sterilization is really easy to get. Only thing is you have to be over 35 years old.

All i had to do was say i want it. And she gave me a number to set a date for operation.

They maje three little cuts in the belly. You can go home the same day or the next day.

And 5 days after the op they take out the sewings.

You will still have the period. Nothing changes.

Im thinking how much less stress i will have once i get this op done. Me and my boyfriend will be so relieved.

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If my sexual functioning was still with it I’d get sterilized in a heartbeat. However medicaid doesn’t pay for it. When you consider how many people on public assistance basically have no business having kids that is amazing to me.

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I have never wanted kids. The idea of kids freaks me the â– â– â– â–  out.

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I’ve never wanted kids either. I always used protection and so don’t have any. Simple.

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First time I had proper sex was with this orthodox religious girl. The condom broke. I think this experience freaked me out big style

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In the US it is really hard to get doctors to agree to tie your tubes. There’s a lot of paperwork and even a waiting period after your doctors agree you’re a candidate. Plus there are a lot of religious hospitals that refuse the operation on religious grounds.

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I see people who have kids and raise them on welfare.screaming kids.slapping their child around. Don’t ■■■■■■■ have kids if you’re not going g to work.

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I got a tubal ligation when i was 23. I am now 36.

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Medicaid in my state covers all birth control including sterilization. My friend got her tubes tied as a 30th birthday present to herself, because that’s how old you have to be. Men can get a vasectomy at 21 in my state. I find that very sexist.

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I would have kids, if I were not ill with 3 serious mental disorders. If someone wants kids he must have a job and lots of responsibility

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I got my tubes tied years ago. I don’t regret it. I never wanted kids anyway.

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There is no reliable protection, they can all fail…

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They generally only fail if you use them incorrectly. When used correctly, they’re 97-99.9% effective. And condoms are very effective at preventing the transmission of STDs. Everyone use condoms if you’re not a clean person in a closed relationship with a partner or partners who have been tested clean, and use a secondary form of birth control if you don’t want to have kids. This has been sex ed with ninjstar.

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“Generally” is enough only if you consider abortion a viable contraception method.

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Lol ninja.you made me smile.

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If you use them correctly, you will not get pregnant. This means using condoms correctly, with the correct lube, and withdrawing immediately after ejaculation. It also means abstaining from sex if you’re taking an antibiotic and are on birth control, because antibiotics make birth control less effective. Additionally, if you’re taking a birth control pill, take it at the same time every day without skipping any. And if you switch generics, use condoms or abstain for three weeks.

The myth that any birth control can fail is a false narrative perpetuated by those who wish to punish people for having sex. The truth is, if you know how to properly use birth control, you won’t get pregnant.

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You just said

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Just have non-vaginal sex and get a sterilization if you want to do it and really want to avoid pregnancy.

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Seriously, the occasional freak accidents that result in pregnancy are a result of people not knowing all the facts of their birth control method. Science does not deal in absolutes, which is why they say 99.9% effective instead of 100% effective. But all pregnancies that happen on birth control are a result of the people involved not knowing how to properly use their birth control.

Additionally, sex doesn’t have to be vaginal to result in pregnancy. If any semen gets in the vaginal area, pregnancy is possible unless birth control methods are used.

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Source?
The 99.9% figures are from perfect use, if there don’t know how to use them properly the rates are higher.

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I don’t care what the next person does … I don’t care if they have kids and work .:: have kids and don’t work …: work and have kids… be on welfare… have protected sex… safe sex … red sex… blue sex… old sex… new sex… Reading this post kinda made me feel weird … shrugs :woman_shrugging:

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