When I think of my past relations with women and sexual imagery, I feel really bad about it. Even though I’ve matured over the last several years, I am very aware of my own tendencies. But, I’ve come to realize that every man no matter how refined, intelligent and mature he is, deals with his own misogynous tendencies. Do you agree? The reason I bring it up is because I’m really starting to become romantically and sexually lonely lately and just want to bite the bullet and talk to women. It’s just if I start talking to pretty store clerks and ask one for a date, I’m afraid of looking like a creep. I know deep down I’m being too hard on myself. I’m just going to have to push myself if that’s what I really want. It’s just that simple.
It’s all about the difference between our dreams and our realities. Don’t forget that when we dream, we call the shots. Reality doesn’t work like that so it’s a lot more difficult.
Yes, you are…Just be friendly and natural.
Some girls like shy guys.