Can you survive and do well enough without your partner?Would losing them affect how well you will function?
I’m sure I could handle it, always have, before Phil.
we thought we’d break up a couple different times,
but yeah, we both need each other, for many reasons.
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Yea I am having a rough week with my wife.We gave birth to a child one month ago,she had caesarean operation.These past two week she stays up through the night because the baby either couldn’t sleep or wake up and cry for milk.I worked the whole morning and return only at night.Our relationship has suffered a lot.Life is so troublesome no matter how
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Yes it would affect me. I hate to admit it but I need support.
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I remember those days. I had two babies at one time.
my ex used to fall asleep feeding my son, and my son would
then fall asleep with a bottle of breast milk in his mouth.
it used to make me so mad. I had to feed my daughter.
it’s hard, cuz he was working as a cook in restaurant here.
hard to adjust to getting very little sleep.
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She was so mad she said she wanted to leave,I got really affected also and said you can leave anytime,and bye…I replied.I am angry,that’s why I asked if people can survive without their partner
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well, things change dramically after having a baby.
you should try to make peace, seems you’re a family now.
If you aren’t independent and can’t survive without your partner, you shouldn’t be with someone and even to have a child to begin with anyway
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Nobody can be prepared,some wait and wait and stay single for life.At least I experienced being married anyway
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I’ve had five babies, all c section and one baby was born three months early. I understand how tough it is. Just know, that it is rough. But if you can support each other through this difficult, that it will get better.
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we get into the pettiness too,
like
“These are mostly all your dishes, so you can clean the kitchen.”
and
“Well I bought this for you, you didn’t”
and
“Well she’s Your dog.”
if we do fight though more seriously, we both get over it rather quickly. We don’t walk around on egg shells, and I would never deny him sex.
If I didn’t have my husband, I’d be homeless. I can’t work, anymore, since June. I depend on him for a home, a car, food, my meds and medical devices…
I hate to admit that I am so dependent… but it’s the truth.
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I’m dependent on my husband. I don’t know what I would do without him. I don’t work so I rely on him for everything.
Everyone has a hard time when a new baby is is keeping you up all night. All babies need tons of attention and it’s perfectly normal to be overwhelmed. Just try not to argue and try to help as much as you’re able
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