This is to hard

Work is hard, everything is hard, I want to quit but my family keeps telling me not to, they don’t understand and they think I am just being lazy when in fact I am not, I’m struggling

Tell me its gonna be alright

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You’ll be okay whether you stay or go.

What’s going on at work?

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I don’t feel motivated to do anything and I don’t like my job, its to complicated

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It’s going to be fine. Just do what you can and that is enough. What is your job?

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Thank you… Only you guys understand how it is
I work AS a credit consultant

Right now I am at work, I need to go a few kilometres in a 32 degrees weather

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You’ll be alright I think. Maybe just push through today and make a decision tomorrow on whether to stay or go.

I shouldn’t talk, I’ve been one to drop everything on break and leave. I know how it is.

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Did you start your job recently? For me, the first two months at a new job are the worst. Once you get past them, you will feel more confident and capable, and it won’t be so hard. You’ll have a routine.

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I’ve manage to stay today… I feel good that I pass the day

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First days are overwhelming even for folks who don’t have a mental illness. What you feel is completely normal.

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This will pass man… perhaps find a good activity to live for in your spare time.

I’ve got a few RTS games I fall back on when I want to breath. Long drives are fun… Going out to a campsite just to make a fire for a few hours.

Riding a bike around.

I already have my spare time spending at maximum, i enjoy my loneliness, just bought an xbox and tomorrow I will hit it

I like my life. I am not in the right mood to work, I do it with great sacrifices and paranoia

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I manage today, I will manage tomorrow also

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Being a credit manager sounds like a job with possibilities to me. You just need imagination and hard work. But if it doesn’t work for you, then do what you think is best.

I could easily get into a management position in max one years, I don’t know if I survive until them

I’ve heard that when you’ve been out of the workplace for a while it can be depressing to get a job. I knew this one girl who had a psychology degree from Oklahoma State University. She got a job with a small finance company, and she came early and stayed late. Then the company went through some bad times, and they had to let her go because she had the least seniority. They gave her stock in the company as well as cash for severance pay, because she was worth more than they could pay her. Then she got a job with a bank, and again, she came early and stayed late. Now she has worked her way up as an executive, and the bank was fixing to put her in charge of a whole region of the United States. She drives a Porsche and lives in a sumptuous mansion. She had a really bitter divorce though, because her husband was an alcoholic. She has one daughter, who I think is going into social work. One thing I have been seeing a lot of is women who are bank presidents, as well as other women in other positions in banks. I’ve also been seeing a lot of female judges.

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What do you want to say?

I don’t know. I started out writing about this girl I knew, and then I started rambling. I was just making a few observations. I suppose one conclusion would be that women are gaining power in our society.

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That’s a good thing and long overdue.

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