But this guy I recently saw. He broke things off because he couldn’t handle my mental illness, which fine whatever, I still feel like things could have been solved with boundary setting there but whatever.
But I had a huge red flag I decided to overlook on our second date. We were kissing and he reached for my throat… which, luckily I don’t have sexual trauma, but I didn’t tell him he could do that or that I wanted it or anything like that. Seems wayyy too bold to do that without even asking right?
Also it can be but it can also make some sense. The thing is I barely told him what was going on and before we started dating I was very upfront with him about what my diagnoses were. I’m just glad he showed his true colors early on