My brother in law lives with us again. We have to pay for his meds and his overdrafted bank account.
That’s over 300 dollars. I understand he’s sick and needs his meds but it’s ridiculously getting ■■■■■■ up. They don’t expect anything from him. I’m expected to strive for normalcy do my chores no matter what hurts or how I’m feeling
Do they have money for his meds? If not, I would pay for those since they’re kind of important, but why are you and your partner on the hook for his overdrafted bank account? They can’t force you to pay for it, so I say don’t. They’re his parents. They can help him deal with it.
Sounds messed up. Hope everything works out for you. 
They baby him because he has hep c and diabetes and is a former herion addict. He’s the biological father of the inlaws adopte daughter.
We gave him the money reluctantly. He is struggling to get on disability. I don’t mind helping he’s nice to me but the inlaws just threw it all on us
You guys are never going to get out of there if you keep spending money for your in laws. I’m sorry, but there’s absolutely no reason that you should’ve had to pay for his overdraft account, or his meds, for that matter. I’m glad he’s nice and all, but your in laws could at least help.
Sounds like you have a very unhealthy living arrangement.
They used the 678 dollars my partner gave them for other things
You’re totally being taken advantage of. And that sucks.
Oh… Well, I mean, if you guys gave them the money, then it’s theirs and they can spend it however they want, sorry. I know that may not be what you want to hear, but if you want to control how your money is spent then don’t give it away.
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