yea, this is one of my fears too which is why i was really considering open relationship. but i have yet to meet an asexual and get a vibe from them and talk to them why they are asexual becuase it may be real.
where i live there is at least one asexual grp that i know of but it doesn’t really leave much space for options,unless there is such thing as fate and destiny.
i feel like i can’t be with any person as a potential partner that i see until i am secure in myself, only from that point on could i be with someone that i come across newly, and like and if they like me.
Yeah, that is the key, really. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll never believe someone else when they say they love you. This will lead to being distrustful, which will destroy the relationship.