This guy should be grateful that I’m his roommate because no one else would put up with his constant irritating, insane noises.
my dad used to cough. I thought he wanted me to read into something so it started to piss me off. why can’t he just come out and say whatever is on his mind? I guess it was just him coughing for some reason although oddly he rarely ever coughs anymore.
is your roommate a smoker or anything?
Oh boy. You doing okay @77nick77? Never a good sign when someone’s coughing starts to bother you.
You said he should be moving out soon-ish anyway. So hopefully you won’t have to put up with him for much longer.
I would not be able to handle that well during night time!
I used to hear My brother shouting at my other brother during the night cos of his snoring.
Oh man, I can sympathize with the irritation over coughing/sneezing/whatever noises are coming out of people at any time.
But I’m sure it has nothing to do with you. Is your roomate a smoker?
The thing that bothers me is when I try to ask if my bro has a cough for a perfectly valid reason, he says no it’s “Something else”. I have a feeling he’s gaslighting me in those situations. Does your roomate keep his reasons for coughing to himself?
Idk, sometimes I cough to let off steam.
He’s a smoker, but, yes, I sometimes suspect there’s more to it than that. So yes, @shutterbug, it may be a bad sign or possibly it may be the another case of someone who lived on the streets and has a violent past who may be using those two experiences of his life to irritate me constantly with an annoying cough. The guy also makes a weird sound with his clearing his throat that is crazy and I heard another neighbor mimicking him so that tells me that someone else sees something in these noises too. @Coldcomfort may be absolutely right when he says its not directed at me, I could agree with that but I’m not going to be collateral damage of someones problems (if that makes sense.) I want power and control just like anyone else.
When I found out my wife has a goiter that is causing her coughing I was able to be less angry with her.
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