I have some friends on other forums. Not mental health but frog or bearded dragon ones. Jasper is now almost 7 months old and one friend said if she hasn’t developed nuptial pads or started croaking by now Jasper is most likely female. Another said after 10 months. But until I know for sure Jasper is gonna be considered a her.
I don’t know why I’m sharing this, I just wanna share what makes me happy