I’m going to sound like a whiny stuck-up byotch, but bear with me here.
I don’t want a boyfriend. I don’t act like I want a boyfriend. I don’t act like I want to have sex. I do have a guy-like sense of humor that I think a lot of guys connect with, and I do reply when someone tries to start banter.
I do, however, also seem to hang with a lot of lonely guys whose contact with females is very limited. I’m not saying that to be mean, it’s a fact.
Because I’m so nice to those guys and act relaxed around them, they seem to get the impression that I want to do more than friendly things with them.
I also have big boobs and long hair, and even though I do my best to hide the boobs and not get them noticed, guys seem to notice anyways and often find ways to comment on them or try to touch/poke them.
I think they’re confusing friendly feelings with lust and love, and projecting it on me, and I hate it.
I don’t want male attention.
How do I stop this from happening?
(I don’t want to stop being friends with guys or cut my hair short, though)
Again, I’m sorry if I sound like a self-absorbed bimbo, but it’s a real problem for me, and it’s making me feel unsafe and like I can’t trust guys. I want to be friends with them, and I want to be able to trust that they won’t try to take it further, and that the things they say are not secret attempts at flirting or making me interested in them.
Every time I think I’m making friends with a guy and he starts hitting on me, it breaks my trust in him completely, and I feel betrayed. I thought they wanted to be friends when all they really wanted was to get me naked