He lives 4 1/2 hours away and I would have to go with my parents at 7:30am tomorrow morning, and come back sunday.
We are not going out anywhere, and just staying in the house he lives in, and drinking beer and getting a take away
I have not seen him since Christmas.
Being honest I don’t want to go up to see him. I have my routine at the weekends, and this is really going to throw me out big time.
He chose to move that far away from his family, and he has no good reason to stay there.
I am not against people getting benefits, but in his case he is just being lazy, and has not worked for 10 years now, and he sponges of the government.
There is nothing physically or mentally wrong with him.
Honestly his life style really irritates me, but not more than the fact that he lives so far away.
He should be here with family, as he has no good reason to live where he does other than he has a few friends there.
My dad is now 65/66? He won’t be around forever, and I think he takes things for granted. Truth is we only have so much time in life to see the people we care about, and he has chosen to leave for over ten years.
I will tell him all this eventually, but it just angers me.
Am I being unreasonable, and should I go or not?