Should I ask one woman to have coffee with me

I often see one younger woman when I ride my bicycle. She also rides a bicycle or walks. We have quite good conversations and I was thinking of asking her to have coffee with me. I am not quite certain how she would react. I am a little afraid that this might spoil our current good conversations. What do you think?

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I don’t know it depends on how young she is?

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She is in my age group.

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nothing wrong with going to having a coffee… if you mean a coffee at some cafe of course.

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Yes, coffee at a local cafe.

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yea ask her to do that… i think it’s a good idea if you can talk well together.

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Then I say go for it.
Going for a coffee or tea is perfect
Good luck!

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Would be a good first step @mjseu

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Go for it! You never know unless you try

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I find open honesty to be best in situations like this.

You could tell her what you told us, you enjoy the conversations and would like to invite them for a cafe.

You are a nice guy

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yea why not, if she is interested to hang out, just say hi.

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Yeah, you could ask her. Don’t make it a big deal or come on too strong. Just something simple like, “Hey, would you like to go out for coffee some time?” Something simple and friendly that doesn’t put too much pressure on her or you.

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Thanks for good advices @77nick77 @everhopeful @ZmaGal @Wave @oe1489 @DNA @Ooorgle @lekkerhondje I’ll ask her for a coffee in this summer.

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I am very busy but I can throw something together quickly with enough free time which can be achieved by doing quick food raids on foot to nearby super markets and back allowing me to spend much of the day at my place.

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