well that’s Great news then isn’t it! see no worries, mate. 
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Wow! This sounds promising! Well done! 
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She told me her dad got paralyzed like 5 years ago 
I think I responded well to that. It’s a tough thing to respond to but I think i handled it fairly well
I’m relieved now lol
She says she’s not a hippie but she’s been told that before. She claims it’s a “west coast thing” 
And much more
We both have anxiety, both love Alan watts, spirituality, astrology, much more
This is promising
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Yay! Happy for you man 
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What did she say?
“Nm u?” 
I told her my life story pretty much
Everything about me
She replaced everything I said with her version of it
She even signed off the same way I did at the bottom of the message I thought it was cute.
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Nice man hope it works out 
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In response to her dad being paralyzed I responded something like “wow I’m so sorry that happened, I didn’t always have the greatest relationship with my parents but couldn’t imagine having anything happen to them that horrific” etc… And she said that her dad has since found a spiritual side and I said that was good he did and compared it to alcoholism in that spirituality is the way to feel a bit better about a bad predicament…and often times it could go in the other direction so it’s good he found spirituality and not the other way around.
Do you think that was a good thing to say? I think I sympathized with her well, but comparing the spiritual aspects to the spiritual side of alcoholism, was it appropriate? I think she’ll understand because she’s a very understanding person…, her dad sounds like a cool guy, I feel bad but the fact he found a more spiritual side after such a horrific accident says a lot about him and his character. I’ve met people who had difficulties walking go the other way spiritually. I hope to meet her parents one day, they’re both libras she said 
But I’m getting ahead of myself…
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Hippies…lol good job and good luck…
Wish you the best.
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I think think that was fine to say (just stepping in here). You can’t really tell her you understand what she’s going through because you haven’t been in that kind of situation. But saying sorry shows you can have empathy for others. I don’t know about comparing spirituality to alcoholism some people are very touchy when dealing with their spirituality but I do hope all the best for you. Waiting a couple days might be easier too because then you can clearly think of something to say, and take some time to really think what it means and weight possible outcomes before outright blurting something out. If she asks you could say you misplaced your phone and couldn’t respond right away.
I’m not trying to compare alcoholism to being paralyzed, more like trying to relate to her on SOME level, even if they ARE completely different. I think she’ll understand. She’s very understanding it seems. Thanks for your input though. I know something like being paralyzed isn’t something you can recover from, and it’s very tough on the family, but trying to relate to the spiritual aspect of feeling a little bit better. Like I said I think she’ll get it. She’s not one of THOSE girls, she’s very spiritual herself.
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Well I know I wouldn’t get offended at what I said…so if she does get offended, were probably not meant to be…I like people with similar thought process to me.
She said she was obsessed with ego dissolution for a while, as was I, so we tend to think on the same page. It feels like we’re in harmony.
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Hippies…but your evolving…youll be a heathen wolf in no time…
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What a brilliant and exciting development!
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I texted my therapist this
That girl likes astrology more than I do, and it turns out we are pretty compatible. She said she’s done psychedelics, but didn’t go crazy with them. She’s a cat over dog person like I am. Her parents share the same birthday, different years, same case with my grandparents. She loves Alan watts. She’s very spiritually inclined. She says she’s not a hippie, but has “got that before”. She plays guitar, I rap. Her parents seem like great people. She’s from San Fran and I love San fransisco culture. We both have anxiety…much more in common! Love nature too. And she’s a redhead and I love redheads … Seems good to be true. She’s 21.
I signed off my last letter to her “Jon James levy sun Gemini moon Scorpio Capricorn rising. The end.” And she did the exact same format. I thought it was cute. She seems very intuitive and aware.
Oh and she had an obsession with the word “ego” too. We seem to be in harmony🌲
So much in common
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You must keep us updated on this! I’m hooked now.
Has anyone ever called you JJ? Jon James.
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Nope haha! She has a cool first name, it’s very California-y…not a name you hear on the east cosst, but I won’t say it. Her middle names Nicole though and I love that name. You can call me jj if you’d like!
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I call him @tattersaladhippie …lol…your gonna go super hippie and explode…
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