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Rehashing old conversations, looking for Clues
Was it selfless, or just stupid?
It always seems to start as one, but inevitably becomes the other

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I find that memory distorts things, and that things I was sure of then I struggle to maintain confidence in when people are abusive or take advantage.

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How very true @eek . Memories and Views can become distorted, and it’s only in hindsight that they make sense

The first part you say I think is true unless by hindsight you mean something different than just thinking about the past. Unfortunately for me the longer I sit on a memory the harder it is to think I did the right thing… sometimes anyway.

I think I prefer to assume that I was trying my best at the times when I made those decisions. That the time in between has made me forget the details.

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That’s all any of us can do. I make mistakes on a regular basis, but it is only in hindsight that I realized they were a mistake at the time

That’s for sure

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