So my girlfriend of 3 years I recently discovered had taken plan B without telling me (emergency contraceptive). She is already on the pill and takes it religiously (everyday exactly at 5), she claims she forgot to take her regular pill, we had sex, and she took plan B just in case.
I found this out through a conversation with her best friend dating back to the time she took it (2 days after NYE) where she was telling her she was scared and she was 5 days late on her period. Several conversations went on like this for about a month prior.
I called my gf out on it and said why didn’t you tell me, her reason was, over and over again, because “I didn’t want you to be worried” which I definitely wouldn’t be about this kind of thing at all. When I insisted that explanation made no sense, she called her friend who explained her hiding it as “just a personal thing”.
I think she did cheat based on the fact that her friend would have a good reason to give as to why she was hiding it from me. Or at least her girl friend would know the reason and have a similar answer to my girlfriend since they talked about it for a month.
My girlfriend keeps insisting that she thought I would be worried and thats why she lied, but she understands it was wrong to lie and keeps insisting I should stop asking about it, or that I’m crazy and ridiculous for asking about it. What possible reason could she have to hide this from me other than she’s afraid of my reaction (I believe was unlikely) or that she cheated?