If you were convinced only one person in the entire world cared about you, and that you’d fall apart without them, wouldn’t you too blind yourself to their flaws?
I dont know what has happened but you are worth more than this… why is he pressuring you with these kind of threats ? It sounds like manipulation but idk
Do you still live together, or are you back home now? If you live with him still, you shouldn’t anger him until you are somewhere safe. If you are safe, then yes, you should block him. He will convince you to return to keep being abused if you give him any platform to speak to you again. He knows how to manipulate you. You will return if you let him talk to you again.
If people are offering you the resources to get out, then I say take them.
And then get into therapy.
In the end it’s really up to you how much you’re willing to fight for yourself.
I don’t like change either, but sometimes you just have to take a leap of faith and see what happens. If you’re anything like me, you’ll need therapy to help sustain you in the process.
Would it be cowardly of me to hand my sister my phone and ask her to block him for me?
Would there be something therapeutic for me to man up and do it myself?