It’s ok; and it’s natural to want to feel it; have some of it; and what so many should hear(I feel), is maybe it’s ok if you’ve bumped into some of it, in an adversary and felt um … Pained.(!)
(We ARE gods creatures, AND gods children.)
Lemme back up (again) …
I’m an awesome Uncle, I’m there doing everything right w a 1.5 year old in the fam…
Power is a vocab word that happens in kid cartoons!!! Ha!!
He, the toddler pushes a basket of ‘diapies’ around and I let him chase me; and I’ll fake yell:
‘Oh No! Not the basket of Power!!!’ AaRGH!!! AHhh!!! And he lights up!!
Because he’s not ‘schooled; because he’s not socialized; and is innocent; AND unembarrassed!’!
It only accounts for so much I understand… I won’t reach all with my intention today and maybe I’ll always be a lil’ tone deaf here BUT:
[if you were abused in your past, by a trusted person, that’s a different animal; And I cannot help; although maybe this still can still in some way of thinking newer thoughts about the assailant; and not circling the same ‘grist for the mill’…
Look:
I’m here to help.
And my ‘handle’ is a misnomer because I require help back (at moments).
(I’m not healed and recovered all the way.)