I have a hard time motivating myself to shower. Now I make a point only to shower when it is time to clean my dreads, or if i am going to see my bf. I have almost no motivation at all to shower, it feels like torture. How do I help this?
i dont mind it but its hard to shower regulary even shaving and getting a haircut is difficult
i want to get the bubble machine tho for the bath so it can be like a jacuzzi lol
I shower a couple times a week. Not much, but hey, itās better than not showering at all !! hahaā¦my girlfriend is very understanding about it, but I think it bothers her. she showers every morning.
Thatās what Iām trying to figure out too. The only thing I think that might help is just forcing myself to do it everyday and then it becomes less of a problem because Iāll think about it less if it eventually becomes a habit. The thought of that fills me with stress though.
Edit: itās like it has to be daily or not at all, if that makes sense.
I try to shower once a day but itās usually every other day. Lack of drive I presumeā¦
When I was living in thailand a couple years ago my thai gf would wash me dahhh those were the king life daysā¦
I feel I need to apologies to some of the cashiers that I get close enough to insult them with my bad orders especially when I was drinking and smoking as well. Iām very sorry that I just didnāt seem to care or notice that this really occurred to anyone that I might have offended that way.
I try to wash everyday but sometimes I just shower twice a week. My partner for some reason hates showers but sheās also real busy with balancing work and her family time since they take up most of her time.
I said I donāt mind it, but there are times I detest the thought and forego it for a day and there are times I get in a nice warm shower and love that feeling. So I guess I chose the most applicable medium for myself. Donāt mind it (most of the time)
when I was young and living in a group home, I rarely showeredā¦and I smoked. One day I was in my dadās car and suddenly got a whiff of myself. I said āI STINK!ā and my dad said āoh Yeah??ā and then I knew it was really obvious to everyone else but me. When I got to my parentsā house I took a shower and told them to burn my clothes. LOL.
Since then I am not as bad as thatā¦but I do go up to three days without showering. I no longer smoke so thatās one good thing. If I have to go out anywhere I will only go every other day without a shower. I hate the feel of the water stabbing me also. I also hate being cold and naked. I hate the feeling of vulnerabilityā¦but I do like the fact that my hair looks better and I know I smell better after a shower.