Poll: Do you ACTUALLY want a girlfriend/boyfriend?

Do u guys use condoms…

I have some latex free ones I want to try :wink:

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My wife says I can have a girlfriend so long as I don’t fall in love.

Never taken her up on that offer. I think she is just kidding around.

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I used to be obsessed with that issue. But after I stopped porn, witnessed several failed relationships between people i know, saw how much effort it takes to raise kids, realized there was no way out of poverty, and recognized how ugly the drugs and age has made my body I decided I was better off without one.

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it is nice to have a companion really. This is what I was thinking today. I have a companion for life. We are good friends.
It seems like a good thing to offer to on a dating profile - looking for companionship.

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Yes I want a bf… but I’m afraid I’m too paranoid or borderline. Need to work on my self esteem first.

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Currently I’m finally good with just learning patience and making money…

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I dont want to make myself dirty so i think no i dont want a bf. Dirty i mean scewed up mind and yes dirty morally also.

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I want someone to have sex with and someone as a companion or good friend. Can only have one of the two though. My relationships don’t last long.

My relationships last longer than a century usually. :joy:
is this so? You can not meet someone both you like to be intimate with and be friends with?

Not really. I feel like those two things don’t go together or work well together. Especially as a guy, once I have sex I won’t care or start to care less and less for the person.

If I were to have a friend or companion with no sex then relationships can last for a long time or I’ll be more “there” for the other person.

But sometimes I just want sex and I’ll just get it from someone I don’t care much for. I’m pretty turdy but such is life as a male.

I guess your age is also very young? :unamused:
What if you have sex and instead of caring less and less for a person, you start caring more and more?

Do you have sex like an animal or when like someone?

I want a dog.
Being married to a Sociopathic Borderline for 7 years drained the life out of me.

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I am sorry @Vertigo :frowning:

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This is physiologically how males are. Not all but I’m just part of that group. If I have sex with my girlfriend I start to care for her less and less despite how long I have loved her. Example: 4 year relationship went dry for me after starting to have sex.

I’m 25, not that young.

I see myself indistinguishable from animals but at the same time liking someone makes sex much sweeter. I have to consciously resit that urge from potential companions. I would rather just love someone emotionally than sexually.

Is this some sort of a sick joke.
What is this. :joy:

What is your vision for your future? You meet random people for sex and then have a companion friend in a platonic relationship?

I understand, Arturo. When I was on testosterone the only relationships I wanted didn’t involve too much love, just lust. Now I’m off of it and cuz of the APs I don’t even care about either sex OR relationships. It must be wonderful to be a natural male…

Yes, I would like a girlfriend. But I am poor and overweight. And I smoke.

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I’ve been thinking that even after I lose the weight,complete my education and get a job, I might also have to get a license and car before I can get a girlfriend. I tried learning to drive years ago but the lessons were super expensive, more than I could afford for more than one lesson.

It’s not very hot to arrive at the date and leave via public transportation.

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I don’t think Mrs. Pixel wants me to have a girfriend.

Or a boyfriend.

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