I pm a few people sometimes when I remember to so if your one of my pm buddies and I haven’t pm’d you ina while… im sorry my memory is bad… I usually initiate which is rare but its even more rare for another user to pm me first… apparently im an ■■■■■■■ sorry… ive never had a “bad” pm other than the random mod going “wtf are you doing???” paraphrasing of course lol …but other than that no bad ones…
so are you a pmer? do you usually initiate or are you usually receiving the first pm? hows your experience with pms good? bad? meh?
PMs make me really anxious! Usually when I get one, I hide for a couple of hours before I can respond. No idea why I get like this, it’s a kind of performance anxiety, I guess.
I’m better with group pms - those I can duck into and out of if I need to.
@Anna im terrible at it… I try to pm atleast one person at about the same time everyday… but I fail to remember more than I succeed… lol
@Rhubot I feel the same way… but for group pms… my pming style is more like a lazy penpal so the speed at which the larger group pms moves is too much lol… im sorry if I have ever ramped up your anxiety with the random lotr question… lol