I´m still waiting for my ex to write an apology letter (which I won´t respond to, and because I won´t take her call) after 6 years of no contact.
It´s hopeless for me to think that people change and become morally better. People usually don´t change, and they stay all their lives beeing more or less who they were.
How can you expect her to write an apology letter, maybe she hasn’t thought of that. It’s not that people don’t change, there is usually a misunderstanding between people.
People only think about their life and things they did, when they’re going to die. Sometimes not even.
After six years??? Time to move on, it is doubtful after that amount a time a ex is even thinking about you
People learn and grow, yes some people never change, but many do as well
I think about ex’s sometimes, even google them the odd time, just to maybe see how they look now or what they are up to, I would never go back to a ex though and for the most part don’t dwell on what they did. In younger years I was a drinker and did some pretty stupid stuff, that today I would not even consider. I like to think I am a way better person than I was back then
That’s like people following me around the shops, harassing and hating on me being combatative and competitive and quite frankly downright rude and awful I don’t even know why.
I’m a 28 year sober AA member. I’ve literally met thousands of people who have changed their lives for the better over this time. People can and do change if they’re willing to do the work and accept the consequences.