A pdoc tried to tell me that there is no such thing as rape. I disagree. When it concerns a child it is not two consenting adults in any way.
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Wow, that pdoc would get fired today for sure. Thatâs crazy talk.
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I donât know if I should believe you at this point. Thats too much.
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The pdoc was particularly arrogant.
âŚhow did the topic even come up?
I donât remember. He was an analyst and so questioned me about sex. I was not sexually active at the time so he would remark about theories.
I added TW to the title.
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Thatâs ghastly. Two ladies I know who were raped would take issue with that statement.
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How any woman would ever have the audacity to be like âI was born in the wrong era, I totally belong in (insert any time but the less sexist future)â is so â â â â â â â beyond me.
Like, â â â â dude. Some men have such a limited and toxic world view.
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So, Iâm not sure if youâre serious or not, but just for reference, women had to fight for a long time to get men to acknowledge that rape was possible between married couples. Like, I donât know how it was in Canada, but in the states it wasnât illegal to rape your wife until 1993.
And even still, itâs almost never believed sand incredibly difficult to prosecute.
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Having been a victim of this and seeing others trapped by drug gangs as teenagers into âdebt repaymentâ Iâd have to say I find this topic abhorrent
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how long ago was this? I hope you have a real pdoc nowâŚI would fire that one.
I was 20. I am 77, now.
20 is not a child nor paedophilia.
I meant I was 20 when the pdoc told me about no such thing as rape.
My ex ex raped me. And I wasnât even confident that it was considered rape. I had to talk to a therapist and my best friend about how it happened before I knew for sure. I told him no, And tried to push him away, and gave up and totally dissociated while he did it. And because I didnât keep fighting I didnât think it was rape. But my best friend and therapist said it was rape because I told him no. He wasnât my man at the time, he was my ex. It had been 6 years since I had sex. It was painful. It really messed with my head because at the time I was still in love with him, but after that I fell out of love.
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Sorry to hear that Leafy⌠
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yea iâm really sorry about that too⌠sexual abuse is terrible⌠i got some traumas too.
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Sorry @lekkerhondje
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1983 in Canada. Also very difficult to prosecute here.
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