Okcupid profile

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I was on Okcupid for like a day and had my picture on there, a whole bunch of guys messaged me, some really (sorry) weird looking people like Borat and some really nice looking guys.

I had one fun conversation with one guy, he was not my type in any possible way but I enjoyed talking to him. He asked me on a scale of 1 to 10, how crazy are you? and 10 is Bipolar, then he said nothing more impressive than a girl who knows what she wants and is not afraid to say it. (I had chosen the option - donā€™t have kids and donā€™t want them).

Long story short, I got at least 500 likes and some nice compliments. A lot of guys just asked me if they would like to meet me for drinks, I guess thatā€™s what people do. Meet for drinks and spend the night.

Not me, in a million years.

There was one guy I wonā€™t forget, he was wearing heels, and he had long hair :flushed:

My profile was something like thisā€¦

28, straight, city, Caucasian.

I am a freelance graphic and makeup artist.
Friday nights I am hanging out with a few friends and having a few glasses of chardonnay.

I can not live without my iMac, music, coffee, iPhone etc

Music list (lounge remixes and some DJā€™s) I donā€™t watch TV. I donā€™t read books.

That was all I can remember. So I donā€™t think people care much about your profiles. It is just the first few steps to get a girl on a date with you and once you go on a date, itā€™s easy to have a proper conversation.

and another guy asked me if I had a place to have sex.

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wow, thatā€™s great you had such a powerful response !! you must be a pretty one to get that many men chasing you at the same timeā€¦hold out and thoroughly interview your hopes in a man with who you come across and be carefulā€¦keep your creepy meter high.

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I am already in a relationship. This was 2 years ago I guess.

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ohhhhhhhā€¦ok thatā€™s still great !!

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I think all women really get a lot of attention, I donā€™t understand why some of my single girlfriends cannot find anybody. :thinking:

They donā€™t have any MI or any problems. And they are very beautiful. I know two really stunning women who can not find any guys. Really bizarre!

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I just got completely overwhelmed by mine. I had really no way of distinguishing what sort of guy I liked because there were so many who seemed like good fits for meā€¦maybe I should try again and be more discerningā€¦I dunnoā€¦I stopped going on it after just a couple days. Sorry to all the guys I was talking to and then vanished on :disappointed:

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I know for me a lot of people question why Iā€™m single and end up assuming Iā€™m gay or something when in reality Iā€™m just too shy to approach guys and Iā€™m not into the guys who approach me because theyā€™re usually very cocky and/or players. The guys I am into are too shy/nervous to approach me. So itā€™s just rough. Iā€™m gonna die alone surrounded by furry animals.

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People still do this? What do you mean by this? Cheat on you or just wants to have sex?
If you go on a date with a guy, it does not mean you will marry him. If you think he is a player or whatever, never talk to him again. You donā€™t owe anybody any explanation.

I think people are very open nowadays about what they want. Most guys have listed ā€˜open relationshipā€™ on their profiles, depending on your age group.

Make it simple, create a targeted profile for what you are looking for. I think most guys are not shy.

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A lot of men these days are still very shy. Well maybe I can only speak for myself. But I hardly ever approach a woman. I just never know what so say.

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Ur braver then I am. Im too scared to try dating websites cause I fear rejection

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I thought this was funny.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2016/08/01/this-guy-has-swiped-right-on-200000-women-without-much-success/

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i bought okcupid a-list and then got kind of paranoid about the whole thing, and disabled my account. im not ready to date anyway, until i lose the weight.

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If you are talking to me, why do you fear rejection?

It is a part of life. Not everyone will like you. It is better to try than never.

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You know the typical ā€œladiesā€™ manā€? Otherwise known as a tool, or other less savory names. Basically guys who are really just looking for sex/a hookup and hoping that you are either the same or naieve enough to be tricked into it anyways.

Iā€™m talking about in-person in that last post. I only just recently checked out online dating. But like I said thereā€™s far too many options there to where I get overwhelmed. I have to be pickier.

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And thats y i fear rejection

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If you go on cheap dates (for coffee) only, it wonā€™t be a problem to go on 150 dates.

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So basically, you assume that all men who approach you are players and just want sex. It is the same with seleneā€™s friends probably. They are judgmental and formed an opinion of the men just because they are more friendly.

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No I do notā€¦I have a good judge of character and can clearly distinguish guys who are slimeballs from guys who are genuine.

Youā€™re the one leaping to judge hereā€¦

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Look at what you stated above again.

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Ive just been dissapointed a lot and havenā€™t felt it healthy to try. Its bound to happen but I donā€™t find myself mentally fit to play the game i have to play to get a relationship. Everytime Iā€™ve tried Iā€™ve found that the expectation other people want from me is more then I can handle.

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