Maybe I just wasn’t built to have a family. I never wanted one. I used to think it was because the one I grew up in was so bad.
Its not for everyone…nothing wrong with not wanting any…when i have really bad days its very hard…my little one goes to his grandmas…
I felt like that most of my life, I grew up extremely poor in a single parent household, surrounded by drugs, alcohol, and violence, and I didn’t want to bring life into that kind of world. Luckily as I got older I realized I didn’t have to bring them into the same environment I was brought into, I could bring them into a stable, loving family.
Yes, my brother has kids, so it didn’t affect him so much.
It’s not a decision to be taken lightly. When I first got sick I went through a rough period, feeling like I made a mistake in having kids and feeling like they’d be better off without me. Luckily as I got better those feelings left, although I do worry that I may have passed it along to one of them.
Yeah, when I think of people that I could have been with I sometimes think 'lucky escape for them '. But hopefully as I recover more, I might feel like I worth a bit more.
When you are dependent on public assistance for a living you are essentially still a child and children don’t make good fathers. It’s as simple as that.
Thats kinda douche…thats really douche…go away troll…
When I was young I viewed family life as a fraud, but as I got older and became an uncle I could see how rewarding it could be to raise kids. I never got around to it, though. Now I’m 57, and I’m afraid it is too late.
I don’t agree with this at all. People are on public assistance for any number of reasons and life circumstances.
I agree…the ghost of hitler must have took over his keyboard…burn your books and beatles albums…
father hood is a teached to you as you go throught life, some you pick up before some after, the trick is to have good people backing you. there is more then get some gal pragnet. and money. love god and know of him, and you’ll do fine.
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