Not wanted syndrome

Does anyone feel that people not want to be with you or even doesn t want to be in place you are in.and even its official things.do you felt that act different than regular neurotypical citizens?i feel that people find me dangerous just because i uses some political mantras in my mind and i thought they feel it.

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I feel this way sometimes like Iā€™m not liked or not wanted aroundā€¦ even on the forum I feel like this at times because I donā€™t contribute muchā€¦ but it is probably just insecurities. Internal things I have to work out.

No one can hear your thoughts, so itā€™s not about political mantras, maybe it more about how you feel about yourself. You donā€™t seem dangerous to me.

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Thank you for your kind reply and support.thats mean a lot

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I feel this way with my brotherā€™s wifeā€™s family. Theyā€™re borderline rude about it. So now the feeling is mutual.

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Mantras that i used are look nonsense in first look but it have meaning at my mind. Like ā€œofficial argumentsā€ or ā€œhomeland nightmareā€.and i feel that this mantras change my outlook and thats why people are feel it what i thought.

@anon63380492 of course youā€™re wanted silly, donā€™t ever think youā€™re not.

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Yes, I know what you mean. I feel cast aside.

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I sometimes worry that my partner will get sick of me due to the sz. I do consider myself high functioning, but I still need help with some things. I donā€™t feel like Iā€™m unwanted but then I donā€™t disclose my illness to anyone.

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It is possible that your body language and the expression on your face can have a effect on people. And other things as well. If you radiate negative or positive emotions people will pick up on it. If itā€™s negative they might get defensive subconciously.

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Ok.that might be true.my all body language and face mimic is neutral and i show very limited emotional mimics and jest since my childhood.this might be the reason.thanks you for tips and kind reply

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Thanks @Leaf ā€¦ <3

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I feel like lots of people donā€™t like me and donā€™t want to be around me. Itā€™s hard to deal with

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I feel I post too much sometimes :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

You are a very worthy member of this forum, regardless of how much you post.

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Sorry you feel like that.

Sorry you feel like that @anon68444330

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This will sound ā€˜depressingā€™

But I feel the same.

In particular IRL I feel I turn social situations awkward and uncomfortable in many circumstances.

Itā€™s basically about being able to enjoy yourself in the presence of others for me.

I often canā€™t do that so then it gets weirdā€¦

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I never know what to say. I get really awkward too

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yea sameā€¦ itā€™s like normal people have like a database that they use for topics to talk about and i seem to be missing that database and because of that social situations become awkward.

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Thatā€™s a perfect way to describe it @lekkerhondje

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Thanks @Zoe ā€¦ :slight_smile:

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