No sex drive ever!

That’s right folks I’ve never had a sex drive. I’m talking about being intimate with someone and having intercourse has never been pleasurable for me. Even during my teenage hormones fueled years before meds I didn’t want it. Every time I was with a woman I got no erection so I tried with a man and there was nothing there either. I wouldn’t mind having a girlfriend but we couldn’t ever have intercourse so I’d probably be a bad idea for a woman. Oh well…

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You could be asexual or suffer from ED or have sexual anxiety issues… just some possibilities.

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I have lots of anxiety. Been anxious since childhood so that could be a possibility

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I read somewhere (in a book about mental illness) that that’s common with schizophrenics some go years without having sex drive I am one of them even off meds I never thought about having sex I just masturbated sex didn’t make sense

There is a specific issue called “performance anxiety”. You worry you won’t be able to get it up, then because you’re stressed you can’t get it up, and that makes you more anxious about the next time. It’s a vicious circle for a lot of guys.

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Theres always viagra.

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i can go a long time without sex but i dont. i really like it. pretty girls. love them to death. it was actually this drive that kept me going over time along with work. i only do paid sex. no involvement. love to me is a juvenil concept long gone. i don’t see nothing wrong with you. it is normal.

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anxient is preoccupying yourself with the future. it is overcomable. this phenomena you mentioned is like a catalystic nuclear reaction. it is a trap. live the present. forget the past and expect nothing from the future. that is how i live anyways. not giving advice. not preaching.

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I had zero sex drive before starting testosterone replacement therapy, and now I’m revved like a Ford 302. I would go down the list of possible reasons, including but not limited to anxiety, hormones, medications, sleep issues, and diet.

Then again, if you don’t mind having zero sex drive maybe let sleeping dogs lie.

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Yeah- I don’t think it’s performance anxiety. I’m probably just this way because of my schizophrenia. Oh well c’est la vie

You just need to be teased and played with. Guaranteed i could get it up. As a woman theres no man i havent been able to get off.

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I never say never. So who knows?

sz actually causes erectil disfunction because of the hyperprolactinemia. viagra eliminates this disfunction.

I don’t think sz directly causes high prolactin levels. It’s certain AP’s that cause high prolactin.

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You are correct. APs cause hyperprolactinemia because they decrease dopamine in the tuberculoinfundibular brain dopamine channel.

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@Bowens @egofree you are both right. It’s not the sz but the AP’s that cause the dysfunction.

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Coincidentally I went to the dic doc yesterday.
I got Ed meds and booked an appointment to get my testosterone measured.
This is best done in the morning so I’m going again Friday morning for this test.
I’m married and have kids so it all for pleasure and no stress.
If they find my testosterone low it can affect many aspects of life.
My advice is to see a dic doc and get everything checked.
Good luck and please don’t be embarrassed. Women often get hormone replacement treatment. This is just the male version.

I was this way before antipsychotics. I’m thinking I’m asexual.

bummer man…don’t know… @Later_Gator how old are you? is testosterone treatment expensive? I have excellent drive but the ability only every couple days.

I’m 30, but my testosterone levels were lower than a 90 year old’s. I went through my doctor and was referred to an endocrinologist, and that’s the route I suggest for everyone. My insurance pays for it, and I’m monitored in person. It takes a lot longer going through your primary and then to a specialist, but I believe it is safer than online testosterone clinics. I could very well be wrong, that is just my biased opinion.

Trigger Warning ahead :warning:

I had severe ED. I would go weeks at a time without an erection and then when I would have one it was near flaccid. Plus other symptoms such as chronic fatigue.

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