He’s the second person I’ve ever dated. We decided to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, and held hands. There was a lot of awkward pauses, and I was so shy I barely said anything. I tried texting him, but he said he was busy. I go on his Facebook page and he’s looking at freaking memes. I get that the world doesnt revolve around me, but did he have to lie?? I feel like he hates me and we’ve been together for less than a day. Is that just my paranoia talking?
1 Like
Yes just relax an take it slow
15
1 Like
As the writer above said, “Just relax and take it slow.”
1 Like
You’re still healing from your last relationship and already very insecure in this one,
Maybe you should reconsider being in a relationship at all until you’re more stable.
2 Likes
Being your boyfriend doesn’t mean he has to always be free to talk to you and be with you. Focus on having healthy boundaries. He probably is genuinely busy. I doubt he lied to you. Let the relationship move forward slowly, easily, and without force.
2 Likes
You’re going to find that males between the ages of 15 - 25 are also much less focused on a relationship than the female half will be. That’s just normal.
2 Likes
Coming from around about that age demographic the phones can be the amazing thing about relationship you have the person you love and adore at your fingertips 24/7. It’s also a crutch and can cause tension in the relationship because of so many scenarios I was like it in my first relationship perfectly overbearing almost toxic but like many of them have said this is where it becomes a cructch just give him some space, have some space when you need it and remember to work on yourself make yourself a better person not saying your a bad person but you know what I mean. Very glad for you guys have a good one
3 Likes
This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.